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Post by whereISmyhalo on Mar 5, 2002 11:12:17 GMT -5
Do you like girls who play hard to get? (but are easy to be with when you do get them? I'm not talking girls who are mean and play games, just those who are a challenge.)
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Post by Toxic-Avenger on Mar 6, 2002 11:31:02 GMT -5
Do I Like Girls That Play Hard To Get?
Hello WhereISmyhalo: I do like girls that play hard to get, but only to a point. If they're doing it for the fun of it, I like that, but if it keeps going and going, it can get tiresome. If the guy likes you and you like him, you sort of have to meet each other half-way. The short answer is yes. But as you say, not the ones that play games.
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Post by vbkimber07 on Mar 6, 2002 21:01:47 GMT -5
Slutty or Flirty? Where do you draw the line?
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Post by dizzyupthegirl on Mar 7, 2002 5:21:09 GMT -5
what wud guys do.. when they found out that a girl ( especially one of the guy close friend) likes 'em more than friends.. .but the u guys dont like the girl. So what im asking is: what wud u do if a girl like u.. but u dont like them back?
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Post by KattyKatie on Mar 7, 2002 11:42:52 GMT -5
I have another problem: There's this really nice, sweet, funny, good-looking guy who happens to be interested in me. They're basically perfect except for one thing: they have a history of being over-bearing and even abusive in relationships. He swears he's changed but I'm not sure if I want to get involved with him if he hasn't. Is there any way to tell if he's really changed or not?
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Post by Toxic-Avenger on Mar 7, 2002 12:23:50 GMT -5
Slutty Or Flirty?
Hi vbkimber07: Where do I draw the line? I guess just after flirty becomes slutty. Slutty meaning, prostitute. I guess dressing sexy doesn't not a slut make. Flirty to me means playing hard-to-get but not in an annoying way, touching, playing, that kind of thing. Slutty to me is being more aggressive but in a persuit of sex, or just trying to assert in a sexual way. It's alot more than clothing, or lack there of. Did I answer your question? I'll be back.
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What If She Likes You, And You Don't Like Her?
Hi dizzyupthegirl:
What would I do? Sometimes I avoid her, or ignore any type of advance. I may like her as a friend, but not "that" way. <br> ==================================================
He's Nice and Sweet, But Has He Changed His Ways?
Hi snowbunny:
If you want to go out with him, I'll leave that up to you. Guard your heart on this one and be very aware. That said, give him a try. If he shows any sign of being pushy, arrogant in his ways, LEAVE! Go to dinner and see how he treats the waiter, that may be an indication of how he treats you down the road. Give him a try, a chance, but keep your radar up and leave him at the first sign of trouble.
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Post by -*- Little Miss Strawberry -*- on Mar 7, 2002 13:24:18 GMT -5
blakmagic_woman and toxic.avenger
Update: Things are going fine, but I am very busy and haven't had the chance to see him much, so I'm just desparate to make sure he knows I'm not ignoring him. So I've been txting him, and may see him tonight. Either way, I do see him at least once a week, at church and youth group, which is a bonus.
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Post by -*- Little Miss Strawberry -*- on Mar 7, 2002 13:27:51 GMT -5
Hi, I have a question If it's personal, then don't answer, but... my friend got together with this guy who she'd only met about twice before, and the first time they kissed he fingered her. Now, she's known for being untruthful and exagerrating bigtime. How much do guys do that the first time (and I realise it's different for different guys) and why do they do it? How likely is she to be telling the truth?
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Post by thevoicewithin on Mar 7, 2002 18:19:40 GMT -5
hey toxic this is my question- do guys always just want one thing cuz that is all my last b/f wanted? i broke up with him cuz he kept trying to pressure me.
*darling*
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Post by Toxic-Avenger on Mar 8, 2002 10:35:37 GMT -5
How Often Do Guys . . . ? Hi Lilmissstrawberry: I can't tell ya if she's telling the truth or not. But something like that should never be outright dismissed. We do it to get as close to actual sex as we can get away with. If we're decent enough, we'll respect boundaries, and not do it. Okay, guys do it alot, some, occaisionally, or never. For myself, never. And I will ask permission before I do. If she says, "No," it'll mean No and not, "On." Got that? I'll be happy to explain it better. ================================================== Do Guys Always Want One Thing?
Hi darlingstar:
The short answer is no. It depends on the area you live and what they were taught. If the guy was raised to respect women, then he will treat her well. If the guy was raised so that it doesn't matter what he does, he's going to get whatever he can for himself, it's actually selfish. There are quite a few guys out there that are not after just one thing. You just have to be patient and find him. You did the right thing by leaving that guy who pressured you.
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Post by thevoicewithin on Mar 9, 2002 16:43:51 GMT -5
thanx for the help. i really appreciate it. heres a from me to you. ~*darling*~
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Post by excessive_energy2 on Mar 12, 2002 0:30:28 GMT -5
Hey Toxic!I need your guy mind for awhile....okay here it goes.....
1)I have a lot of guy friends and I have one best guy friends well whenever I'm with my best guy friend my boyfriend gets all jealous and crap and it seems like hes ignoring me,whats up with that?
2)The second thing,whenever someone says something that includes strength my boy friend is always all "Well I could do that," and then does it and makes sure I'm watching and everyother girl, why does he do that?!?!
Thanks Toxic,IOU one!
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Post by dizzyupthegirl on Mar 13, 2002 14:44:52 GMT -5
okay.. well... my situation is that i like Jake* and he is my ex.. and when we broke up it was pretty messy ( completely my foult). So now we are just friends.. but im starting to like him.. Do u think he would still like me? I mean.. he flirt wit me.. and stuff.. and i think he still likes me... but i think he is still hurt by our past relationship. What shud i do?!
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Post by Toxic-Avenger on Mar 14, 2002 10:12:48 GMT -5
Insecurity Blankets Hi excessive_energy2: 1) Guys can be very competitive when it comes to girls. It's sort of how we strut our stuff and display our plumage. It's also an insecurity issue. This guy thinks that your best friend is trying to put the moves on you. He ignores you because he thinks all your attention is going to this other guy when your with him. You need to tell him that's not the case. Whether he'll beleive you or not is up to him. You've done your best. 2) This is definitely an insecurity issue. He sounds like he is always in comptetition with everyone else. He feels like this is the only way to you, and to impress you. He's also just showing off to make himself look better. It's more annoying than it is a real problem. There's really nothing you can do here but show patience and understanding. Tell him it's what's in his heart that you like, not the brawn. He may or may not beleive that even if it's true.
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Hi dizzyupthegirl: How is it your fault? You don't have to answer but think about that.
<< but im starting to like him.. Do u think he would still like me? I mean.. he flirt wit me.. and stuff.. and i think he still likes me...>>
It sounds to me like you two still have feelings for each other and it may be worth it to both of you to talk things out and get back together. Nevermind who was at fault, that doesn't matter now. See if there's still hope for getting back together.
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Post by dizzyupthegirl on Mar 14, 2002 14:28:38 GMT -5
yea.. i guess i have to talk to him...
But the thing is, i heard that he already has a gf. And from what i've heard, she is pretty cool. She lives in London now, cuz she has brain cancer or sumthing that is very serious. I chatted wit her once, and she seems nice. The thing is.. if i do go wit him, i dont feel completely right. If he ever broke up with his gf, i would feel really bad. Cuz i think that his gf need him the most rite now.
but thanx for the advice!
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