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Post by ThaIceLady on Oct 26, 2003 20:24:44 GMT -5
You bad, bad boy! loll I'm just playin'...that's all normal. It's kinda easy to just want a physical part of a relationship since afterwards you can just leave and not be attached..at least you think, but someone always get attached to the other. So it's not really all that fair.
But hmm she's taking a break from her boyfriend? Tempting..but it seems like you don't really want to have much to do with her anymore. You'll have to follow your on intuitions on this one. Good luck Del!
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Post by Frosty The Ice-Bitch on Oct 26, 2003 21:36:07 GMT -5
You didn't say she's having a "break" that's different there isn't the boyfriend complication, but I agree with what she said^^^ follow your intuition, if you think it's not your style don't do it, Just whatever feels right.....
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Post by strangelilboi on Oct 27, 2003 5:43:13 GMT -5
Yeah i think i will. Thanks Angels... (i wish i was charlie!  ) lol Anyways yeah i'm following my heart and my head and not my hormones... I mean i told her clearly that there's no chemistry between us. That i int attracted to her anymore. Its weird why I did this. Why anyone would. She's so not my type. We had the worst break up and i couldnt look her straight in the eye until like 3 years after we did (yeah she's the same one Brickers - she's the only ex i had trouble with after we broke up  ) . What upsets me more that anything is that ...i keep thinking that i have to go so low to get some action... I mean its not that I cant get girls either....I jsut bloody can get the ones i ever want. Maybe dark hair, dark features and nice hips are too much to ask for....pff. Oh i dont know. Anyways i int touching her again. Not with a barge pole! Thanks for ur help angels.  |
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Post by YourCapnSpeaking on Oct 27, 2003 20:56:27 GMT -5
Sounds like you figured it out for yourself Del ... good job. Always go with your intuition/instinct.
"Paging a Charlie Townshend ... Charlie Townshend ..."
Me: Yes? That's me ...
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Post by Frosty The Ice-Bitch on Oct 27, 2003 20:58:30 GMT -5
LoL Your Welcome Charlie!!  j/k haha |
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Post by strangelilboi on Oct 28, 2003 4:07:26 GMT -5
Lol......u lot is crazy! thanx again.
She's been givin me grief tho that i told someone. I sed ffs.....its not important coz we int interested in each other. She sez i am sad and it matters...because i am discussing it - it matters to me. I sed oh sod off then.
I mean she doesnt really make a big impact on my life. ITs just upsetting that shes making me feel like i am the bad guy here. Another one of my mates sez she's jsut guilty. Comments?
My life sux
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Post by busybodies on Oct 28, 2003 5:48:50 GMT -5
I'm glad you figured it out yourself, Del. She doesn't sound like a very pleasant person... don't beat yourself up over someone who isn't worth it. PS: How can your life suck when you have my love?  |
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Post by strangelilboi on Oct 29, 2003 4:26:02 GMT -5
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Post by Frosty The Ice-Bitch on Nov 3, 2003 22:51:18 GMT -5
^^ That the way to go
she doesn't sound like a plesent person anyhow
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Post by strangelilboi on Nov 4, 2003 3:32:49 GMT -5
Thanks Brickers - Big 'ug!
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Post by canadiana on Nov 8, 2003 22:03:30 GMT -5
Okay... this is what I sent to this guy I know (who's like an older brother to me) to ask for his opinion... and I want to know all YOUR opinions too.
hypothetical question.
lets say a girl kept forgetting to call the guy.. like she said she would be somewhere but she couldnt make it and forgot to call too... right? ok well now lets say the girl keeps calling now but every time she leaves a message, and the guy just sends a text message or somethin back saying that he`ll call tomorrow. but he never calls tomorrow.. is he trying to get back at the girl? or what? or is he just not calling because he doesn`t want to talk? and should the girl keep trying to call? or just forget about it and wait for the guy to actually call? annnnnnd...... what the hell is a "break" in a relationship? temporary? a nicer way of saying break up?
remember this is ALL hypothetical...
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Post by YourCapnSpeaking on Nov 9, 2003 16:38:00 GMT -5
Sounds pretty specific since it is hypothetical ... But okay.
It seems to me that said boy may just be forgetting. I don't think that he would do it over and over as a revenge thing because of one night. It happens, but it sounds unlikely.
And a break in a relationship is a break up ... unless anyone else has another viewpoint.
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Post by canadiana on Nov 9, 2003 17:28:15 GMT -5
How can the boy keep forgetting so often? The girl has called at least three times, and left messages each time, AND has sent a few text messages as well. But the girl has stopped this for the past three days or so because she didn't want to come across as desperate. And the girl knew that the boy was mad about not calling before ... so maybe he is getting back at her? I don't know.
But is a break a temporary breakup? Because, to me, it sounds like there's a higher chance of getting back together instead of an ACTUAL "break up".
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Post by ThaIceLady on Nov 9, 2003 18:52:54 GMT -5
Well my viewpoint is that it seems like he is trying to get back at her. I mean, I don't think a guy would keep forgetting that many times. It really seems like he is giving her a taste of what she did to him.
Also a "break" in a relationship. To me I take that as both people are free to hang out with other people of the opposite sex more often and then later on the couple will get back together.
Hope I helped. 
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Post by canadiana on Nov 12, 2003 17:51:33 GMT -5
I don't this couple (meaning myself) will get back together ... or maybe I'm just being pessimistic. Who knows.
Anyway (no more hypothetical-ness).
I asked the guy if he wanted to go out for coffee or something this weekend, and he accepted ... so I think we're going, but I'll probably call him again tomorrow to make sure he's still up for it. But you see, we haven't seen in each other in like a week and a half so this is pretty important. I'm wondering if it's bad to bring up the "break" or keep it casual?
I asked this guy I know about it (he's like an older brother to me and always listens to me)... and he said I should try talking about it just because "what is there to lose? if he meant break as in ending the relationship, there's nothing you can screw up... it's already screwed up. if he meant break as in temporary, then he'll probably want to talk about it".
Do you guys agree?
And if I DO decide to talk about the break and the possibility of getting back together, HOW ON EARTH DO I BRING IT UP?!
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