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Post by ThaIceLady on Sept 7, 2003 20:11:34 GMT -5
You have KNOW idea how nervous I am, how big of a smile is on my face, how sweaty my palms are, how high my heart rate is up!! Maybe I'm making too big of a deal out of this?! Thanks Ice lady and Capn!!!! First off girl, no problem! Second of all you were not making a big deal out of it. I remember last year when some guy IMed me from class and I was all nervous "heart rate going up" lmao thing going on also! Perfectly normal.
As for the outcome...man I've been there too. If I were you I would try one more time. Just be ready for the same outcome just incase. Cause you never know, he might reply the second time around. Good luck!
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Post by YourCapnSpeaking on Sept 7, 2003 20:19:59 GMT -5
Kathryn, I agree with Ice. Give it another shot. It may have been someone else using his computer at the time and they closed the IM and then when they left or something, they turned the AM on.
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Post by SunShine on Sept 8, 2003 0:25:51 GMT -5
I never thought of the possibility that someone else was on his computer! It seems likely because he was on all day, but was idle. I IMed him when he wasn't. So, I have nothing to lose. I'll try again! Thank you so much Ice and Capn for your encouragement! It really means a lot!
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Post by YourCapnSpeaking on Sept 8, 2003 19:19:55 GMT -5
No problem. If ya got any other probs just PM me.
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Post by SunShine on Sept 15, 2003 21:15:53 GMT -5
You guys will never believe this... BUT HE RESPONDED!!!! ;D ;D Here is our conversation
***= Him Other stars are teachers and his friend..
katiecorinne18: hey. this is katie ****** from school... ***: hey katiecorinne18: how are you? ***: not bad u katiecorinne18: pretty good katiecorinne18: i got your sn from **** if you were wondering. ***: ohh ok katiecorinne18: so how was your summer? ***: pretty crappy i was busy the whole time ***: how was urs katiecorinne18: mine was okay. I was at my dad's most of the time so i was pretty bored katiecorinne18: did you go anywhere interesting? ***: nope not really i was doing hw from summer school most of the time katiecorinne18: oh.. what classes did you take? ***: h bio katiecorinne18: cool. so what is your elective? ***: umm band french and animation katiecorinne18: lucky.. ***: i\what do u have katiecorinne18: spanish.. i hate it ***: what teacher katiecorinne18: *****. i can't stand her katiecorinne18: so what did you do this weekend? ***: nothin really jsut stayed at home ***: you?
katiecorinne18: same thing.. katiecorinne18: is that you in your avatar thing? ***: avatar? katiecorinne18: picture in the corner of the screen. ***: lol yes katiecorinne18: cool katiecorinne18: so what do you like doing online? ***: mostley talking to friends katiecorinne18: cool katiecorinne18: do you have mr *****? ***: yeah katiecorinne18: do we have any homework tonight? i absent today.. ***: nope ***: i g2g ill talk to u later ok... ***: bye katiecorinne18: bye “***” signed off at 7:07:11 PM.
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I am sooo happy! And he said "talk to u later ok" so that means he will talk to me later!
I've been smiling and saying hi to him in the halls this past week. I can't believe I finally talked to him!
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Post by YourCapnSpeaking on Sept 16, 2003 20:06:11 GMT -5
Sounds like you're in! Good luck!
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Post by ThaIceLady on Sept 16, 2003 21:04:15 GMT -5
I am sooo happy! And he said "talk to u later ok" so that means he will talk to me later! I've been smiling and saying hi to him in the halls this past week. I can't believe I finally talked to him! Ahh yea girl! Whoo good job with trying again. Update us on how things continue to go.
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Post by YourCapnSpeaking on Oct 13, 2003 18:07:35 GMT -5
More female troubles from David ...
I got this girl named Sarah who has just gotten out of a pretty rough relationship. Here's how the last conversation went:
Her ex-boyfriend has to decide if he wants to keep a long distance relationship with this girl he was keeping a relationship with while him and Sarah dated. He chose to dump Sarah, after all she has put in the relationship.
Now she's pissed off ... how long should I wait before asking her out?
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Post by ThaIceLady on Oct 13, 2003 19:29:17 GMT -5
Hmm..I don't think there's a set number of days or weeks to wait, but I would recommend just being there for her and if she says she needs her space give it to her, but let her know you're there if she needs someone to talk to. When she starts looking like she's getting over her ex then I think it's fine to make your move.
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Post by strangelilboi on Oct 14, 2003 2:08:41 GMT -5
Yeah Capn (dangerous Dave... lol. U can basically can catch her on the rebound... but she's bound to be like suspicious of every bloke so u must be/pretend to be (pick one!) genuine... Well its best if u are, coz she rounds like she had it pretty rough. Gd luck
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Post by YourCapnSpeaking on Oct 14, 2003 20:23:49 GMT -5
Thanks ... I should be making my move Thursday ...
------> What I will say if she says 'yes': "Checkmate"
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Post by strangelilboi on Oct 26, 2003 5:09:10 GMT -5
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Post by ThaIceLady on Oct 26, 2003 11:54:08 GMT -5
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Post by Frosty The Ice-Bitch on Oct 26, 2003 16:36:11 GMT -5
Um, ya if she has a boyfriend it's probably not a good idea, might creat complications, but other then that I don't think it's a terrible idea or anything...............
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Post by strangelilboi on Oct 26, 2003 18:30:09 GMT -5
Hey hows my two guardian (oh so goddamn fine ) angels...? soz.....cheesy Anyways yeah i wudnt normally. Coz well having the guts to have a purely physical relationship with someone is not my style . See wot happened yeah is yesterday...we went shopping and then had a coupla drinks later and we got chatting about wot if we had a purely physical relationship.... I mean we talked about this before and stuff, but to be honest I dont really want to be involved with this girl again really. So I was like yeah cool but whatever... So she dared me to get this mint from her mouth. And i had had a couple (of drinks - proper drinks ) and was up for a bit of crazy fun. And i did. And we got snogging.... I mean it was fun and all... But there was no chemistry there. I'm not really attracted to her anymore. I mean she int the kind of girl i go for anymore. Not by far. She is on a break from her boyfriend who's miles away (anotehr country). So it isnt techinically cheating. I just wanna kno if wot we did was a bad idea... Will it become a bad habit or bring back old relationship -ish troubles...or worse - ie make one of us think the other is seriously interested (even tho rule no 1 was that we werent goin to think so)? [soz very fgin long!]
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