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Post by x.just.a.little.grL.x on Apr 3, 2002 20:21:46 GMT -5
Lauren~I'd try your luck with Jack. It would help you get over Matt while meeting a new guy and possibly a new relationship! 
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Post by Toxic-Avenger on Apr 4, 2002 14:48:44 GMT -5
I'm thinking maybe this should be an official or sticky topic.
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Post by alicia.the.starlet on Apr 7, 2002 23:31:05 GMT -5
Lauren- does Jack have a date for the Prom... that would be perfect! Ask him. Don't hold out for Matt. I mean, he's great and everything, but he's not available. Keep him in your mind and in your heart, but try venture out and try your luck with other guys. You may never forget Matt... but you also just may find someone better [for you]!
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Post by SunShine on Apr 21, 2002 2:58:36 GMT -5
Can someone help me? I have had the biggest crush on this guy for about 7 months, and he has known that I like him for about two months. I sit by him in one of my classes so I have the opportunity to talk to him everyday, but I can never think of anything good to say, except something like "so how is your day going," or "what are you doing this weekend," and stuff about homework. He doesn't ever try to start a conversation either. And he never makes eye contact. My friends say I should ask him out, but I'm pretty sure he doesn't like me. Should I take the chance?
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Post by vbkimber07 on Apr 28, 2002 15:33:52 GMT -5
^^Do you have any common activities or teachers you could talk about? Any concerts coming nearby or events coming up? I wouldn't ask him out at this point. If he never smiles at you or makes eye contact, I wouldn't say he is exactly infatuated with you. Don't get me wrong and give up hope, it could just be he hasn't noticed you or thought of you like that. Start out by asking him to go somewhere with a group of co-ed friends. Make friends with him first, and you might have a better chance.
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Post by vbkimber07 on Apr 28, 2002 15:38:21 GMT -5
AF Chica and LadyLuv --
Oh my gosh. Your posts earlier could have been posted by me. I can so relate. PM me if you want to talk.
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Post by thevoicewithin on Jun 10, 2002 12:49:49 GMT -5
i have a problem see i'm almost 14, and i'm dating a guy who just turned 16. he'd like to take me out on dates and stuff in his car, but the problem is, my parents don't like the idea of me driving anywhere with a guy who just got his license. my mom told me that if she got to know him, then maybe there would be a possibility of that happening. but see she said that it would take maybe 1 or 2 monthes before she decides. i cant wait that long! what would make her decide to give him a chance??
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Post by x n0ise on Jun 10, 2002 20:45:33 GMT -5
^^^The same thing happened with my boy and I (except mine's 17). We've been going out for about 4 months now, so everything's still getting settled, but hey.
All that I can tell you is that it will take a little bit of time. Try to bring your guy around the house as much as possible. The more your parents see how nice he is and once they have some good, honest conversations with him, it should be better. Try to get them to do some communicating....then they'll get to know him better that way.
Hope I've helped!
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Post by thevoicewithin on Jun 11, 2002 13:22:41 GMT -5
thanx for your help spastic! it'll be difficult convincing my parents but i'll do like u said and try to bring him around alot. r u allowed to drive around with ur boyfriend? |
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Post by x.just.a.little.grL.x on Aug 28, 2002 10:29:17 GMT -5
I didn't know where to post this, but I just kind of had to vent, or let it all out or something...Well, this whole day really sucks as of now. The guy I'm with, liked me soo much a few weeks ago, in fact he liked me so much at this time last week. And that was when I didn't want anything more from him than being with him (i.e. he kept asking for things to be serious, i said no). Nowthe tables are turned, and its horrible. He's treating me like I used to treat him, like as if I didn't care what he did and I wasn't like always nice to him and stuff. Well now I'm not obsessed with him, but I like him a lot now, more than before. And guess what? He doesn't like me as much as he did now, and now he just wants to stay "with" eachother. I don't know, he said that he was sick of me being bitchy to him all the time, and well..it's just other stuff I did to him that I can't really go into (if you really want to know, PM me), but last night I was talking to him about how I wanted more, and he just told me how he wants to keep things the way they are...and I was crying hysterically (I was talking to him online). And I don't know what do with myself. I was used to him worshipping the ground I walk on, and not liking it, but now all I want is to go back to last week and get him back. He used to make me so happy. I'm just so sad right now, I don't like feeling this way. I feel so rejected and hurt. I mean he knows I've changed, I'm being nicer to him and I'm trying. And he's like "What, you have to try to be nice to me?", but he just doesn't get the fact that I'm trying to change for him. I miss the old him so much.  I don't know whether to stay with him and feel this way...or move on? ?
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Post by PrettyGirl_Is_Suffering on Sept 10, 2002 20:24:34 GMT -5
Ok I have a problem.... Anyways theres this guy names B (yah fake names not to obvious right?  ) Well anyways i was hanging out with him and a bunch of other people and he was all flirty and holding me and stuff like that and we kissed at the end of the night. Anyways now he really likes me and asked me to homecoming and it scares me becuase i dont think he is really my type. And it scares me to think more might coem of this. I though the night was just a little inocent fun. I told him I would think about it. My friends say I should just wait it out becuase we're "so cute togther"  . So I don't know if i should go to homecoming with him. i would feel bad if I didnt becuase i guess I lead him on.  But for some reason it just doesnt feel right. Any advice? |
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Post by PrettyGirl_Is_Suffering on Sept 11, 2002 16:03:19 GMT -5
PLEASE help! ^^^^ The more I think about going to homecomming with him the worseI feel.
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Post by PrettyGirl_Is_Suffering on Sept 12, 2002 20:14:17 GMT -5
^^ ANYONE! IM DESPERATE
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Post by scars.of.reget on Apr 20, 2003 19:30:43 GMT -5
That says it all. If you feel bad about going with him, then don't. Homecoming is a special event. You shouldn't have to spend it with someone you don't want to.
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Post by paradoxPanda on Jun 19, 2003 16:26:11 GMT -5
Honesty is the best policy, seriously.
Tell him, gently, that while you think he's a nice guy, you've realized you don't really have feelings for him/you're not interested in dating him.
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I don't know whether to stay with him and feel this way...or move on?
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) Well anyways i was hanging out with him and a bunch of other people and he was all flirty and holding me and stuff like that and we kissed at the end of the night. Anyways now he really likes me and asked me to homecoming and it scares me becuase i dont think he is really my type. And it scares me to think more might coem of this. I though the night was just a little inocent fun. I told him I would think about it. My friends say I should just wait it out becuase we're "so cute togther" 
. So I don't know if i should go to homecoming with him. i would feel bad if I didnt becuase i guess I lead him on. 
But for some reason it just doesnt feel right. Any advice?