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Post by Beautiful.Disaster on Sept 18, 2002 20:34:33 GMT -5
^^ If you really want to restore the friendship, definitely apologize to her. Once me and my freiend were in this big fight. we weren't talking and eventually I got tiured of it and realized I did want this friendship. So I sucked up and apologized. And belive me,that was hard to do, because I'm really competitive and stubborn and I hate to apologize. But I still wanted her friendship and so we are friends again Good luck!
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Post by SunShine on Sept 18, 2002 23:13:30 GMT -5
Thanks for the advice. I think I'll write her a letter and send it to her so that way she will have to hear what I have to say and wont be able to hang up on me.
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Post by Dudet13 on Sept 21, 2002 0:41:44 GMT -5
Never Never land: i totally agree with you, thanks for helping me feel like i wasn't just being a b****. I saw her dad theother day, and he was telling me that i need to call her and talk to her or whatever, but last time i checked, the phone works both ways so why can't she call me if she wants to talk. whatever. she's not worth it. Chelsea
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Post by *~*Midnight's*~*Curse*~* on Sept 24, 2002 20:49:34 GMT -5
Ok heres the deal.....My friend Kallie(USED to be my best friend, but now were just friends) started going out with my Best Best Guy Friend Andrew, and now she rubs everything in my face, like whenever they hold hands she just as to come and find me, she is always saying how much she loves him. Oh and then she wanted to go Richs(Local Resturant, everyone goes there) so she started naming off all the couples, and I asked if icould go with them, ans she was all, "Oh I don't know, you don;t have a boyfriend." I totally pist me off!!! She acts like I'm dirt becuase I choose not to have a boyfriend and I'm best friends with her boyfriend!DAMN!It was making me so angry!
Ok I feel better.
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Post by *~*Midnight's*~*Curse*~* on Sept 24, 2002 20:49:45 GMT -5
Ok heres the deal.....My friend Kallie(USED to be my best friend, but now were just friends) started going out with my Best Best Guy Friend Andrew, and now she rubs everything in my face, like whenever they hold hands she just as to come and find me, she is always saying how much she loves him. Oh and then she wanted to go Richs(Local Resturant, everyone goes there) so she started naming off all the couples, and I asked if icould go with them, ans she was all, "Oh I don't know, you don;t have a boyfriend." I totally pist me off!!! She acts like I'm dirt becuase I choose not to have a boyfriend and I'm best friends with her boyfriend!DAMN!It was making me so angry!
Ok I feel better.
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Post by overshadowed on Nov 16, 2002 3:57:25 GMT -5
Ok heres the deal.....My friend Kallie(USED to be my best friend, but now were just friends) started going out with my Best Best Guy Friend Andrew, and now she rubs everything in my face, like whenever they hold hands she just as to come and find me, she is always saying how much she loves him. Oh and then she wanted to go Richs(Local Resturant, everyone goes there) so she started naming off all the couples, and I asked if icould go with them, ans she was all, "Oh I don't know, you don;t have a boyfriend." I totally pist me off!!! She acts like I'm dirt becuase I choose not to have a boyfriend and I'm best friends with her boyfriend!DAMN!It was making me so angry! Are you sure she's doing it on purpose? If she is, tell her how you feel, or if that doesn't work, cut ties with her completely. Do you have feelings for him at all, or is it just her behavior you don't like? Here's my problem: Yesterday, a friend (Samantha) told me a secret. She said I could tell a mutual friend of ours (Alexia), so I did. As I was, another friend of mine (Jodie), overheard and obviously thought I was "blabbing" Samantha's secret. I confronted her, and by the end of the day, we weren't on speaking terms, apart from when we were exchanging abuse. That night, over IM, Jodie starting bombarding me with all kinds of crap, like how no one liked me, and that Alexia told her to continue being nasty so I'd stop hanging around them. I haven't talked to her since, and I have no plans to. I'm still so angry at her, but I know that our "group" of friends would take her side over mine, even if she was in the wrong. Now, I feel alone and friendless. There's no one I can really befriend in my class... any advice?
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Post by hahaimgoofy on May 8, 2003 5:57:58 GMT -5
overshadowed- Have you tried to tell Jodie what really happened? If not, you should, but not for your sake, for hers. Maybe if she starts to be rational about the situation her outlook will change. If not (said it again!), I wouldn't be her friend. I know you may feel alone for a while, but you will eventually find other friends. Honestly, you don't need to have friends if they treat you like crap. No one does, and sometimes you just have to confront people about certain situations! Good luck!
My problem: Yesterday, during lunch, my stomach was hurting REALLY bad. I thought it was hunger, but I forgot my lunch. The only thing my friends gave me was sunflower seeds. Then, I felt hungry AND thirsty because of all the salt! I didn't have any money to buy a drink, so my friends told me to ask Sarah, in line, for one. I asked someone to ask for me (keep in mind that my stomach is killing me, and no, I'm not exagerating), and one girl said, "It's your stomach that's killing you, not your legs. Go get it yourself!" So here I am, in the lunchroom, sucking up all of my energy to get up and find out that Sarah is in the front of the line, and I can't get to her. I sit back down, exhausted, and I find out she didn't have a dollar anyways. I wasn't pissed about not getting the drink, but them not helping me when I was in SERIOUS need. It would have helped me out a great deal, but did they care? NO! So, I gathered up all my energy again and walked to the bathroom. After I got out and was fine, I got my stuff from the table and left.
I may have said a few words to them when asked questions, but the answers were short. I guess you can say I haven't really talked about it since. I'm PISSED about it! That's really weird, because I usually sleep and get over things, but this is the next day, and I'm still affected by it. I guess you can say I'm really hurt. Sometimes I think I'm not meant to have a good friend. Any advice?
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Post by scars.of.reget on May 22, 2003 5:11:51 GMT -5
i'm really confused. Lately i feel like my best friend is just there. there's nothing really to talk to her about, we never tell each other EVERYTHING anymore, it just seems as if she doesn't care. this is my fault too, recently i've been uncaring and generally uninerested in basically anything, not great to have a conversation with.
Also, it's as if we're competing for everything, attention, guys, other friends. We're always trying to annoy each other by being with some other group of friends. It's weird and scaring me, i don't know what to do.
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Post by Keista1 on Jun 27, 2003 9:08:18 GMT -5
^Talk to her about it...maybe she is feeling the same way you are?
I dont have a problem with my friends, I'm just confused. It seems like I'M always the one doing the work. I know that sounds corny, but its true. If I weren't the one to call them, or ask them over then it would never happen. And its not just because they dont like me or w/e bc I thought that at first. I just dont know what to do! I know we have fun times and everything, but I'm getting tired of always being the one to make the plans!
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Post by ThaIceLady on Jul 2, 2003 7:09:21 GMT -5
^Aww you should tell them. Tell them that they should make the plans for once and call you for once. Tell them you are taking a break from being the one who thinks up what to do.
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