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Post by Royal_Princess112 on Mar 10, 2002 17:10:25 GMT -5
...that *you* know about. Like, in my case, i'm a *virgin 'till marriage* & all, but even so, i still have, um, sex dreams, & i sometimes wear racy underwear (thongs, leopard-print bras). & i don't want to start dating until i live on my own, b/c my parents would be all up in my personal business- which i don't want. is anyone else like this? ...or am i the only one?
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Post by Royal_Princess112 on Mar 11, 2002 12:36:41 GMT -5
anybody??
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Post by Royal_Princess112 on Mar 12, 2002 17:53:29 GMT -5
come on, ya'll!
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Post by Ich Liebe Rammstein on Mar 14, 2002 17:42:56 GMT -5
Man,Im SOO like that....I almost lost my virg. like 2 years ago but they found out,**but Im gonna lose it to my bf** (and they dont know about my bf who just turned 18 ) and they barely know ANYTHING I do....but its cool,cuz they dont need to know /everything/,ya'know??
~~~~~~Heather,(Edward Furlong,Mike Shinoda,Chester Bennington,KidRock & Joe C. LOVER!!!!!! Linkin Park RULES!!!!!!)
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Post by Dave Herald on Mar 14, 2002 17:49:12 GMT -5
But parents should know some stuff. Like if you're having problems understanding in school or maybe even more serious stuff. It can solve a lot of problems in the end.
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Post by lilblondie1892 on Mar 14, 2002 19:43:21 GMT -5
i dont tell my parents anything that goes on in my life w/ friends, boy friends, and stuff like that! i do tell them bout school and other stuff.
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Post by Michaelangelo on Mar 23, 2002 15:50:02 GMT -5
I think it's a shame when people won't even talk about the most mundane occurances with their parents. Some even become defensive and will shout that it's none of their parents' business what they do...which, I must say, is immature, unintelligent, unnecessary, and really rude. I'm friends with all my parents (I have four, in case you're wondering) and willingly tell them all about my friends, problems, and classes. I do keep things from them, of course, but why do I need to tell them about the boys I hook up with, the tests I fail, or the chemicals I smoke? There's a line between selective communication and no communication. Whoo, did I go all preachy! And the moral of the story is... "Why can't we be friends / Why can't we be friends?" Love, ~The Kitten~
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Post by Fyre on Mar 24, 2002 3:38:53 GMT -5
I never really hid a lot from my parents. There were things they didn't know about, but if they would have asked, I wouldn't have had a problem talking about it. But they didn't, so I figured we were cool. The only thing I seriously hid from them was my online relationship. They knew I was friends with the guy, but they didn't know it went any further than that, but I ended up moving out without telling them, to be with him. Now that I look back on it, I wish I'd have been more honest. [Even though my mom would have forbid it, there was nothing she could do, since I was over 18.] That's the only major thing I ever hid from her, or anyone. Currently, I don't think there's anything I don't, or wouldn't want them to know. Maybe the fact that I'm not a virgin, but they probably have it figured out. I'm living with my boyfriend, and they're not stupid.
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Post by x n0ise on Apr 1, 2002 22:42:55 GMT -5
I tell my parents about my friends, school, problems, etc. But I don't really talk about my relationship[with my boyfriend]to her. I mean, she knows I have a boyfriend and everything, and she's met him, knows him, etc. But, like, I'll sneak him over every once in a while...we do some things that I'm sure I wouldn't want her to know.
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Post by luminous on Apr 2, 2002 14:04:51 GMT -5
My mom knows about a lot of the things that go on in my life, because I feel I can talk to her without her being judgemental. However, I'm unable to talk to my dad about really serious girl issues because we just both end up feeling ackward.
However, there are still things that I keep from my mom, such as the fact that I have sex, I've snuck out at night, and that I own a copy of Playgirl.
Despite those things, my mom and I have a pretty tight relationship.
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Post by Boo-Boo_Harris on Apr 16, 2002 16:20:49 GMT -5
My parents know a lot about me surprizingly. The only thing that they don't know is that I lost my virginity. I don't want the speech "you should have waited till marrige", or anything like that. I can't take it back, and truthfully I don't want to. Also, they know that I smoke pot, (i told them a few times) but I don't think they know how much I actually do it.
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Post by LisaRocksYourWorld, yo on Apr 16, 2002 17:06:49 GMT -5
There's nothing for my parents to know. I don't smoke, drink, do drugs, or anything that my parents would get on my case for.
They know I've kissed a guy (There were two, though). They don't know about the guys I like, or my (lack of) love life.
Luckily, they're pretty liberal on sex and dating. They're not those "You must wait until you're married to have sex and you can't date until you're 18!" type of parents.
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Post by zonacruz6 on Apr 20, 2002 18:23:19 GMT -5
My dad only knows what my mom has told him. Whenever I try to talk to him, he just says, "Mmhmmm" cause he's "busy" or he explodes and starts yelling.
My mom and I talk alot. She knows that I like Mike. She's met him and she likes him alot. He's over here a lot, too. My mom knows that I've had boyfriends and all that "girlie stuff".
Neither of my parents know that I've made-out with 2 guys, I've taken naked pictures of myself, looked at porn, I'm in love with Mike, or that I wanna have sex. They know I almost lost my virginity a few months ago, but I didn't tell them. They found out a few days before I was supposed to go over Mike's and they told me I wasn't allowed...they've eased up though. My parents aren't the kind to say, "You have to wait until marriage to have sex..." because they would be contradicting what they did....heh. They think I should wait a few years. But, me and Mike are building up to a relationship and I'm not sure if I can wait much longer, a few months....tops.
I don't tell them some things because it might hurt them. Or, they might kill me...I tell them what I can.
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Post by x n0ise on Apr 20, 2002 18:31:36 GMT -5
I talk to my parents about a lot of things. What's going on in school/youth group, about my friends, my boyfriend, and things such as that. But there are many things that I won't ever tell my parents.
I would never tell them that when I say I'm going out with the Youth Group I'm usually out somewhere with Jon...making out or something. I have him over at my Aunt's house every Friday night(when I babysit, after the kiddies go to bed), and we make out, and do other sexual stuff such as oral sex. I would never talk to them about my sex life. Ever. That's one thing I don't discuss with parents. I wouldn't ever tell them that I sneak out of the house with Jon while they're gone. Heh. I have so much fun.
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Post by It's~A~Nova on Apr 21, 2002 14:03:44 GMT -5
[glow=pink,2,300]There's not a whole lot I have to hide, I don't drink, smoke, or do any other kinds of drugs. What I do have to hide involves guys. I was allowed to start dating at 16 but then my mom started putting restrictions on who I can and can't date. She really doesn't approve of my boyfriend so to her we're 'just friends'. [/glow]
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