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Post by Spazmatikal on Apr 26, 2002 22:10:39 GMT -5
there is very little that i have to keep from my parents. i'm straight edge - so i'm not drinking, smoking, doing drugs, or having sex. i doubt my parents would like to see me when i'm in a heavy making out session with my boyfriend (tho, even then, there isn't much going on that they could get too upset about.)... i have a fairly good relationship with my parents. my mom, at least.
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Post by GabiGirl23 on May 4, 2002 18:05:37 GMT -5
I don't have to hide the usual stuff from my parents. I don't drink (but they don't know about the one time I was drunk), smoke, do drugs, or have sex. In fact, I don't have to hide a whole lot of stuff about guys - I haven't gone very far. They would probably kill me if they knew I'd even been pecked on the lips before, though, so you know...
However, I don't tell them anything about my everyday life. They know how my classes at school are going, that's about it. They don't even know who all my friends are. They *really* don't know that I have a lot of guy friends. If they saw me with my friends, or with guys, they would definitely not be happy. They don't know this year long situation I've had with this one guy, they don't know what goes on with me when I'm not around them.
Until about a month ago, they didn't know I was cutting myself. I had hidden that pretty well, until the cops showed up at my house. They don't know I'm still depressed, they don't know I remember all the stuff that's happened, they don't know I still cut myself.
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Post by Soleluna on May 7, 2002 23:47:26 GMT -5
Maybe you should try and talk to them. It could help you to gte things off your chest and to find a solution for this situation that you're in... I mean, you would like to stop being depressed, wouldn't you? maybe talking to your parents is the solution.
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Post by DustInThewinD on Jun 23, 2002 14:09:53 GMT -5
I don't tell my parents anything. They don't care. They have more important stuff to talk about, like the house we are building.
So they don't know about most the stuff I do.
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Post by Ms.Thang_Has-It-All on Jun 29, 2002 1:21:44 GMT -5
I don't tell my mom a lot. Like the times when I feel like crying. Of course I don't tell them about problems with friends and guys or bad test scores.
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Post by julinka on Jul 3, 2002 16:54:53 GMT -5
I'm a little bit older than most of the people here, so my relationship with my parents is a little bit different. I tell my dad about drinking (we've even gone out drinking together), and he knows something about my drug use. Other than that I don't discuss sex/drugs/drinking with my parents, although I'm sure neither of them are naive. It's just none of their business at this point in my life.
In general though I've never turned to them for emotional stuff, although I've always wished I could have...
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Post by *~*Midnight's*~*Curse*~* on Sept 24, 2002 20:27:11 GMT -5
I tell my mom everything!Well then again I'm only 13, so nothing has really happened. I feel weird telling my dad about girl stuff, but he usually finds out anyway.Me and my mom are really close and I'm glad I can talk to her the way I can and that I'm not closed in and don't talk to her.
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Post by SunShine on Sept 25, 2002 20:33:56 GMT -5
I don't really keep stuff from my mom, because there is not that much to know. We are pretty close. There is one thing that I would prefer for her not to know, that I ditched fourth period last year, but thats no big deal. My dad on the other hand, I don't like talking to him about anything!
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Post by skeetz87 on Jun 12, 2003 21:11:25 GMT -5
i tell my parents pretty much everything i just leave out some detalis like if i got drunk at a party and they were like how was the party i'd be like oh it was fun.. there were a lot of people there and tell her the main stuff i'd just leave out the drinking part.. even though my parensts dont really care that i drink.. and i'd tell them about boys i like and who im going out with .. just not how far i;ve gone if they asked i'd just say parents arent susposed to kow that kinda stuff and they stop
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Post by cheyne fatale on Jun 12, 2003 21:15:40 GMT -5
I don't tell my parents a lot of things.
Eh. There's not that much to tell, anyway.
I don't consider myself sXe, but I don't do "the usual", and I don't have a boyfriend at the moment, so there we go.
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Post by It's~A~Nova on Aug 8, 2003 18:18:46 GMT -5
The only thing I don't want my parents, or specifically my mom to know, is my boyfriend and I are sexually active. I really wouldn't care if she knew but when she found out my sister is sexually active she gave her this whole speech about 'don't you respect yourself and your body?' and 'could you just stop having sex?'. I just don't want to have to go through that. In all honesty I think she knows but I keep denying it when she asks.
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Post by ThaIceLady on Aug 10, 2003 22:13:06 GMT -5
[quote author=Royal_Princess112 link=board=00016&thread=1042830398&start=0#0 date=1015798225 i don't want to start dating until i live on my own, b/c my parents would be all up in my personal business[/quote]
Took the exact words outta my mouth! Whooo. I mean I'm not going to be doing sneaky things, its just that I know my mom will keep worrying that I'm sleeping with him or something. Ahaha.
That's pretty much it..the only thing I can think of that my mom doesn't know is that I skipped school back in May and we drove to another state lolol...also I don't tell my mom about the guys I've liked/like because I'm just not the type to discuss emotional stuff.
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Post by strangelilboi on Aug 19, 2003 4:37:50 GMT -5
I never tell my parents directly about any relationship stuff. If they find out they find out. They do generally keep out of my business unless i become obsessed with the girl (yes it has happened..). But then for a long time there has been no girl.
A couple of things they sort of know:
- I dont believe in their religion. I believe in God and follow certain Buddhist ideals.
- I drink, which is forbidden in their religion.
But then, i dont smoke, do drugs, sleep around, get into trouble with the cops, get into fights.
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Post by canadiana on Aug 29, 2003 14:15:34 GMT -5
I don't want them to know that I drink.
And that's probably about it because I don't really do much else that's considered "bad".
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Post by cheyne fatale on Aug 29, 2003 15:11:11 GMT -5
I have come to the conclusion that I would never tell my parents anything that has to do with guys.
No offence or anything, but they are sort of lame when it comes to that sort of thing.
"So, do you have a boyfriend?"
"No"
"Why not?"
[because I have really really high standards. And some guys...not that many, but some have asked me out in the past, but I've turned all of them down. ] But I don't say thaaat.
"I don't know, I just don't"
"Well, there must be someone!" [or something like that]
"No, there isn't"
"Are you sure?"
"Yes."
etc!
Or trying to hook me up with like...their friends' kids. IT SUCKS, STOP. kthx.
For some reason, I don't think my parents would care if I started drinking, though. I'm Russian, it's in my blood. Or something. har har har, funn-ay.
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