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Post by thevoicewithin on Dec 10, 2002 20:52:19 GMT -5
I found my thing for when I get angry. I rip up old shirts. It actually makes a lot of noise. It gets my frustrations out and I can use anger and force on something that isn't going to be hurt by my temper. Works out!
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Post by thevoicewithin on Feb 21, 2003 19:11:53 GMT -5
I had a bad case of judgment with 2 guys at my school. I thought they were really nice and cool. That's how they were the first 3 days I was there. Then all of a sudden, today I gave one of them a look like "what are you doing?" because one of them was pulling their pants up after being near one of my friends. He looks at me in this funky way and says,"What you lookin at me like that for?" then with a weirded out voice,"You think you all that, but you just fat." And let me put it this way, I am anything but. I am a size 7 with a flat stomach and nicely sculpted legs from dancing. Then this other guy who I was cool with also for awhile says,"What did he say?" And he repeats the first half of what the guy said and I finish for him, thinking he would say,"No you're not", but instead he just laughs and continues vacumning up the room. I didn't retaliate because these guys think they're badass and I know they would have fought back, maybe physically because they have no respect for girls. I just laughed along with them, but little did they know I am sensitive and it cut me deep. That's one of the reasons I switched to that school, because of all the rumors about me at my old one. I had attendance problems, also. Now, here's my question: I don't know if I should just brush it off or what, because one of the guys that said that remark is a bad kid. He's an addict, and loves to fight for the slightest reason with anyone. But he also was really nice for my first few days there. And I can't figure out the other kid either. I mean, I was rootin for him NOT to be suspended and I thought he was a really sweet kid. But I don't get why he laughed. I don't know if he was laughing at me or with me, but it should have been neither. Should I just ignore it, (because I was really lovin the school until today and I thought everyone was cool with me), and forget it ever happened and still be civil to both of them, or should I continue with the way I'm feeling right now, which is hurt, betrayed, and confused. But also, (I promise this is the last BUT!!) I have a few other loyal friends in that class who would stick up for me against the one who said the remark, but I'm not so sure they would with the one who laughed, because just the day before we had all agreed that we thought he shouldn't get suspended. Help!
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Post by KattyKatie on Feb 28, 2003 19:08:23 GMT -5
Well, its pretty hard to stick up to people when you hardly know them, so I would probably just let it slide this time. If it ever happens again, though, take them up on it and let them know that you don't appreciate it. And another thing, even if he said you were fat, he probably didn't mean it literally. Its a pretty common insult and its used pretty generically so I wouldn't worry about that.
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Post by SnohomishPanther89 on Apr 9, 2003 3:13:53 GMT -5
Ok i need some advice. One of my friends i miss that moved away told me never to talk to her again because i broke up with her best friend. but i really liked having this person as a friend. we use to be best friends then our problems got us to nothing then we were friends then she says she doesnt want to talk to me so i dont know i jus want that person to understand im really sorry and i want things to be like they were when we were good friends.TO THAT PERSON OUT THERE GOD BLESS YOU AND IM ALWAYS UR FRIEND AND I WISH YOU WERE MY FRIEND  |
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