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Post by Spazmatikal on Jul 10, 2002 3:45:08 GMT -5
i don't know if this would go here or not. it's not rape, but it is sexual.
today, my friend and i went to a movie premiere... we got there early so we got a nice spot behind the fence right in front of the red carpet. so my friend and i are leaning over the fence to get a good view of the stars... and i feel this rubbing against my butt. i ignore it at first, thinking it's someone behind me trying to get a better view... this continues for a few minutes and finally i realize, it's a man rubbing his CROTCH against my ass. it was so vile and disgusting, i told the guy to "BACK OFF" so he did... RIGHT ON TO MY FRIEND. he started doing the same thing to my friend, rubbing his crotch on her ass. WHAT THE HELL MAN?! why are people so sick and vile? that feel the need to do that! UGH i feel disgusted and violated and i didn't do anything wrong.
has anyone else encountered anything like this in public? it seems like people try to cop a feel and take advantage of crowded situations like this. ugh.
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Post by horsesalltheway on Jul 10, 2002 4:12:38 GMT -5
Spaz--- that's disgusting. Couldn't you press charges for that? *shudder* Ew. I would have kicked him. HARD.
Nic
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Post by dubiety on Jul 10, 2002 11:08:29 GMT -5
i am terribly sorry that this has happened to you. nobody deserves to be violated like that. unfortunately, something like this has happened to me too.
about a month ago, my friend and i were working on our biology project. (it was the last day we had to do it.) the project required us to go down into a creek, and take pictures of various sites. the creek is filled with water, plant life, and animal life. it is sort of an enclosed space with slanted sides, kinda like this: \___/ . usually, on the top of the sides, there are people bicycling or running, or families out on a walk together. on one side, there is a residential area. on the other, there are work buildings.
during this particular event, my friend and i were in the middle of taking a picture in the water. i spotted a man walking down from the residential houses. he had white hair, was wearing blue shorts, and a black shirt. he kept looking at us. i didn't think anything of it, because a lot of people stared down at us often, wondering what two teenage girls were doing in the murky creek water taking pictures. so anyway, my friend and i moved further down to the other side so we could take our other pictures. suddenly, we hear somebody calling, "laaaaadies....". we turn around, and its the man calling us. my first thought was that, oh great. this old chap is going to tell us to get out of the creek. but then i realized, that he had his pants down, and he was jacking off. "OH my GOD" my friend said. we rushed up toward the other side, to the work buildings. we didn't look back. as we were rushing away, we could hear his balls slapping. oh my god i have never been so horrified in all my life. i mean of all things, exposing yourself to two 15-year old girls? what the hell do you expect to get out of that?
anyway, we kept fast walking away, and finally looked back and he was gone. my friend and i were both relieved. we kept looking around for him to make sure that he wouldn't come back. so we finished our pictures, and headed back to the other side of the creek. we had to walk through all the water and plants to do this. so finally, we're on the (residential) side and are on our way home. but we were still sort of walking along the creek edges. my friend all of a sudden says, "is that him?" i look up and see the same man on the other side of the creek. he waves to us. my friend and i hauled ass and ran all the way home.
if you think about it, if we hadn't crossed the creek, we would have met up with this old sick pervert. i mean seriously, he went ALL the way around the creek to get to the other side, just so he could met up with us. how fucking SCARY is that? at least there were people around at this time. when he had exposed himself to us, there were no people around. ugh. to this day, it still gives me the shudders.
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Post by HairsprayQueen on Jul 10, 2002 14:14:57 GMT -5
Hormones  But seriously,that *is* sick...How old was this guy?? Around 40?! I don't know what the deal is but there are a lot of pervys now... oooo Diva,lets make a horror movie out of that a ""base it on a true story"" woo hooo!!! |
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Post by dubiety on Jul 10, 2002 15:14:28 GMT -5
^^^ haha yeah! i'm all for it. we could bust out the girl power.  |
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Post by Cassiopeia on Jul 11, 2002 12:56:33 GMT -5
Ugh... that's horrible! I'm so sorry that it happened to you. Sweetie, you should have kneed that bastard right in the balls. No one has a right to violate you like that. But don't worry, he'll get what he deserves.
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Post by Toxic-Avenger on Jul 17, 2002 12:40:35 GMT -5
You guys should have reported this stuff to the police!
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Post by Ich Liebe Rammstein on Aug 2, 2002 18:29:58 GMT -5
^^^^^^ I agree. It would have been a better thing to do.. Then again,I'd probably be more scared (since I'm afraid of the po) eek.  |
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Post by Spazmatikal on Aug 2, 2002 18:49:20 GMT -5
the thing about situations like this is you honestly don't know how you'd react unless you're in a situation like that. you can say you'd knee the guy in the balls, or call the police... but when it's suddenly happening to you, it's very different.
i would've said i'd knee the guy in the past, but when the situation happened to me... i honestly didn't know what to do. i was so freaked out, disgusted, humiliated, and mad that i couldn't figure out what to do and i just did my best to make the asshole go away without causing a scene.
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Post by dubiety on Aug 12, 2002 2:34:43 GMT -5
^^^ exactly!
It would've been incredibly satisfying for me, if I threw a huge rock at the guy's penis while he was exposing himself.
But during the whole thing, I got so panicky, and I was hypervenilating. I was so afraid of him and what he was going to do. I felt like I was being violated by this man and we weren't even in contact. I wanted to get the fuck out of there.
Ten minutes after what had happened, I was still scared. You want to whole thing to be over and make it go away. Bringing attention to myself (ie - going to the police) was the last thing i wanted to do, because I was so embarrased that this had happened to me. It would cause a whole big shitzoo, and my parents would NEVER let me out of their sight.
Its like taking off a bandaid on your arm. You don't wanna peel it off slowly and drag it out. Just rip it off fast, feel the pain, then forget about it.
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Post by busybodies on Aug 12, 2002 6:03:22 GMT -5
^^ And that is why assholes like that can get away with what they do.
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Post by Gabster on Oct 20, 2002 18:39:56 GMT -5
Ugh, dubiety, that's nasty. Ugh *shudder*. What a bastard. And same thing with your situation Spazmatical...that's just sick. Stupid perverts.  Mine isn't quite so bad as your guys' cuz I actually knew the guy, but I was still quite POed. It was a day or so before my 8th grade graduation and we were doing this rehearsal thing. Anyways, it was taking forever cuz our teachers couldn't remember our names (haha) and so I was standing in line with all my friends. Anyways, my brilliant friend Steve says, "Hey Gabi, I wanna see how much taller Toby is than you. Stand back to back." Knowing what a perv Toby is, I said, "Uh, no thanks, I'm fine." And he's like, "Just do it Gabbers, it'll be fine, I know you don't want to, but he won't pull anything." So I sighed and said fine and went and stood back to back with him, and of course, he promptly sticks his hand down the back of my pants. Needless to say, I wasn't happy. I almost slapped him but I restrained myself. Shplar. Stupid horny people. *shaks head* |
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