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Post by Ms.Thang_Has-It-All on Mar 31, 2002 22:48:53 GMT -5
Does anyone feel like they have no friends ?
I sure do.
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Post by diamond.in.the.rough on Mar 31, 2002 23:43:21 GMT -5
[glow=blue,2,300] I feel that way sometimes. I mean, sure, I have friends but a lot of the times I wonder just how much they really care about me. [/glow]
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Post by -*- Little Miss Strawberry -*- on Apr 1, 2002 3:28:26 GMT -5
^^^ Guys, I'm sorry. Do you have any idea why this is?
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Post by x n0ise on Apr 1, 2002 3:35:01 GMT -5
I feel that way a lot. I mean, sure I have friends. I'll always have friends that I can call up and hang out with. But I want more from a friendship than just 'hangin out' ya know? I want someone whom I can trust completely(and none of my friends fall under this category at the momento), who I can talk to whenever about absolutely anything. I want someone who I can tell all my secrets to and they won't tell a soul. Who I can confide in at all time, who I'm not afraid to go cry on her shoulder. Sometimes I want to cry because of it. It's so hard...because sometimes I feel so alone. I mean, yeah, I have a boyfriend whom I absolutely adore and I can talk to him whenever about anything. And he's GREAT. But, ya know, I need some friends that are girls too, whom I can talk to like that. Ah...
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Post by BX_Finest_Girl on Apr 1, 2002 23:37:29 GMT -5
i feel like that some times but most of the times i feel like i have too many friends (lol)
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Post by -*- Little Miss Strawberry -*- on Apr 2, 2002 8:03:38 GMT -5
[shadow=red,left,300]I remember thinking that a year back. I desparately wanted a friend who I could completely trust. So I kinda discarded all other friends I had around me, picking out their faults to prove to myself that we weren't great friends. At times I felt "friendless". It wasn't until I realised that no friends will ever be perfect, that it stopped being that way. I re-developped friendships, I spent time with my friends. We're now closer than ever and share and trust each other more. I've realised how blessed I am to have such friends around me from so many walks of life. Don't set your expectations too high. There are people around; put your heart and soul into those people and spend time with them. Friendships develop from experiences.[/shadow]
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Post by sweet_dreams on Apr 19, 2002 4:05:55 GMT -5
^^same with me, I'm actually not 100% sure if I have any friends anymore
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Post by SunShine on Apr 27, 2002 13:00:49 GMT -5
I always feel I have no friends. It's not that I set my expectations to high, its just that I couldn't talk to my "friends" about whats really going on in my life. They wouldn't understand. They would just laugh or somehting and change the subject. I have tried to have a deeper conversation with them, but they just don't listen. They don't care.
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Post by PrettyGirl_Is_Suffering on Apr 27, 2002 13:17:29 GMT -5
I use to feel like that. But things change and people change. So then I got back together with my friends. When you think about it though there must be aleast one person in your school who would be willing to be your freind and or want to. And if you feel like you don't have any friends my advice is to go find that person/persons.
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Post by busybodies on Apr 27, 2002 13:27:05 GMT -5
I hve friends. Good friends I've kept since I was 6 or 7. Even when they moved away I kept in touch with them and I'm proud to say, we're all still best of friends ;D However, I'll be moving to Sri Lanka in a few months, and I'll have to start all over. It worries me and I'l miss all my friends here sooooooooooo much But life goes on
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Post by hahaimgoofy on Apr 27, 2002 17:45:28 GMT -5
At the beginning (and middle) of this school year I felt that way. My one friend ditched me for another girl, and I was miserable! Then a month ago I ended up being friends with them. Next year, it'll be the same way, because one is moving, and the other is bound to ditch me again (we're going to high school, and she's done it to others before)! Sometimes I still feel like I don't have any...
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Post by alicia.the.starlet on Apr 27, 2002 20:03:55 GMT -5
Yeah, I feel like that sometimes. I do have friends, and I know that I do, just sometimes I don't feel connected to them as well as I usually am. Right now, I feel sort of separated from my friends, and so I am lonely. It's weird because I know I've got them, I just don't feel like they are always there.
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Post by Mrs.Tobey_Maguire on May 17, 2002 11:14:54 GMT -5
right now, i'm going through the same thing LilMissStrawberry went through. i've been picking out everybody's faults/flaws & getting rid of ppl who didn't measure up to my "standards". i hate being like this. i know the reason i'm like this is b/c of what happened to me in middle school (i got ditched by alot of my so-called friends). so now i'm trying to protect myself from getting hurt, by picking out ppl's flaws & telling myself "they're not Friendship-Quality", so that i won't wanna be friends w/ them. i really hope i grow out of this stage pretty soon!
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Post by LisaRocksYourWorld, yo on May 17, 2002 16:23:24 GMT -5
I used to feel that way. Back during elementary school and early middle school, mainly. I was shy and I only had one or two people that I could call good friends. They were both guys; I just couldn't relate to girls.
I don't know what happened, but during middle school I made a complete transformation. I became outgoing, surrounded myself with lots of good people, and I haven't felt friendless since.
Sure, my friends get on my nerves in one way or another (I have that thing where I pick out everyone's faults, too), but I have negative character traits of my own, too.
People go out looking for a best friend that is 100% trustworthy, always there for them, and utterly perfect. Truthfully, it's impossible. No one is completely trustworthy, nor is there someone who is always there for you. You want to find a friend who keeps the majority of your secrets and is there for you most of the time. That's really not too much to ask for.
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Post by -*- Little Miss Strawberry -*- on May 19, 2002 9:53:44 GMT -5
[glow=red,2,300]LOYALTY[/glow]
It's loyalty that's kept me with my best friend. I'm loyal to her, whatever happens. Be loyal to your friends, and gradually they'll be loyal to you.
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