What Do You Hate About Being a Women??

[pettyluv]

Well since there was a thread like this at Razz, and since we have a "Why It's Great to be a Woman"  thread, say here what you hate about it.

I hate PMS of coarse!  
and not being taken seriously sometimes.

What do you hate??

[whereISmyhalo]

*being called darling or sweetie by my colleagues (yeah cos they would not appreciate themselves, being big men)

*people acting like I can't configure an X drive on most OS's because I have breasts (go figure)

*my addiction to nailvarnish. Must be the chromosomes

*my tendency to over analyse when you KNOW the guy is not doing that about you.

[iNsAnE.cAnAdIaN]

-I hate that if I express my opinion to a guy in a mean way or lash out because Im upset it is ALWAYS blamed on PMS!!
-I hate that we get payed less (on average)
-I hate that I have to actually spend time on my hair in the morning but guys just wake-up and come to school still looking great
-I hate that my worth is determined by the size of my chest (IM PROUD TO BE A SIZE A!!)
-I hate that whenever I tell anyone Im in breakdance they automatically look at me funny
-I hate that Im expected to wear a dress to grad
-I hate that I analize things so much ( as said in above post)
-I hate my moodyness
-I hate that I constantly compare myself to others and feel I am never good enough for my, or anyones standards
-I hate that just cus Im bad at sports, its concluded that it is just because Im a girl
-I hate that we're the ones who have to get pregnant
-I hate that I am surrounded by perfectly pretty and fit women on TV, Magazinesetc.
-I hate that I have to wear high heels

Im going to stop there....I could go on
*iNsAnE*
p.s. I hate that I have so many things to hate

[blakmagik_woman]

i hate that we have to wax!!!!!!

[hahaimgoofy]

This might be a long list... lol! (Some will be repeats, so sorry!)

~I hate how I am automatically suppose to like to wear high heels! (What's the big deal with wearing sneakers?)
~I hate how I am accused of being a lesbian just because I don't talk about guys and never talk about crushes! (I have other things to worry about!)
~I hate being called honey, sweetie, etc. (I have a name!)
~I hate being compared to models, midriff-bearing singers, and actresses! (The average woman doesn't look like that!)
~I hate how they seldomly pick people who are average looking all over on "The Real World"! (Don't know where that came from...)
~I hate it how in women's sizes, they don't measure inseams, so I always have to roll up or cut off my jeans, and since I can't do either anymore because of dress code, I have to get them hymned (sp?)!!! (Curses of being short...)
~I hate how it's harder for me to promote girl power since I can't play sports! (That's not the only thing we can kick butt in!)
~I hate that we can't walk around w/ hairy legs like guys w/o being made fun of! (Shaving sucks...)
~I hate how we have to act ladylike and proper! (Boys don't, so I won't!)

That's it for now...

[lilblondie1892]

did any of u remember peroids!!!  thats what i hate the most, its like takin a week out of ur month once a month for like 80 years!!
* we have to be the ones pregnet
* we always have to try so hard 2 be skinny and stay skinny, guys dont have 2
* we are always called slut, whore, skank, and its the guy who wants to do all that stuff not us!!!
* we cant just roll out of bed and go to skool, we have 2 take a shower, dry hair, make up, and get dressed and i dont know bout u, but it takes me 1 hour and 30 min every day
* we cant like go burp in public cuz its not ladylike
* guys just assume we are dumber then them cuz we a girls
*we cant just have one pair of shoes we have 2 have like 50 to go w/ every outfit
* we have 2 carry purses thats a pain in the ass
*

[thevoicewithin]

I HATE MY PERIOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
also i hate shaving. cuz if we dont shave then automatically it "gross" and "disgusting"
and always having to worry about if my hair looks good.

~*darling*~

[x n0ise]

~Well, there are mood swings and PMS, of course.
~Getting my period.
~Being looked at as wimpy....just because we're woman doesn't mean we can't be athletic.
~All that time that I spend on looks alone.
~Most guys go by looks and chest size....and they don't usually see the person within us(which pisses me off).
~I'm always making comparisons of myself to others(wether it's models in magazines or other girls in my class).
~We're the ones that get all the pain(pregnancy, pms, periods, we usually have more emotional problems).
~We have to shave(ugh, it's such a hassle sometimes).
~We're always expected to act like ladies(no goofing around and burping, etc....I do it all the time...haha).
~We're always underestimated.

;D

[Shrubby]

Shaving
PMS
My obsession with little baby shoes
My obsession with shoes

[Ich Liebe Rammstein]

PMS
Periods


...Boobs (only because my friends' brother made a comment that mine are too small...hello?! I am not the guy here that has 'em!)


Basically it....

[Ich Liebe Rammstein]

Oh yeah, and like some of the above said. I hate that I am surrounded by gorgeous people, of course we all know if you have money you can get your nose down or some shit like that.

And I hate that I always feel like Jay is looking at other girls because I am 136 lbs and I feel overweight even though people tell me I'm not but I feel like it cause the media has already brainwashed me into thinking that if I am not a size 2 to a 6 I'm a big fat monster who has no life and who is depressed all the time esp. when someone die even If I have never met them in my life and being in this world for some reason that I do not know.

I hate having to wake up every morning thinking I am going to be pushed around for who I am...and this is probably getting way off topic but I hate it when someone thinks they know everything and they have to tell me and give me their shit. this is my life. goodbye.


*takes a big DEEP breath then leaves*

[konark]

aww poor you fyre....*sends virtual hug*
i hate:
*~ being taken for a feminist when i believe in the radical belief that men and women are equal (what the hell is so bad about being a feminist)
*~ bras! i hate hate hate them. in fact i hate my boobs. i feel i have the fundamental right to be topfree and no one should think i'm a whore. but sadly....we're all brainwashed and i can't do that
*~periods. they suck ass. i'm sure motherhood is nice, but if it weren't for those, i'd be much farther by now.
*~ being paid less
*~ living in a male dominated society
*~ high heels. scourge of the frikking devil! invented by a man! can i get more specific? (as above mentioned..wretched curse of shortness...arrrgh!)
*~i hate having to 'do' my hair (its mid waist...and i just cut a foot off..so you can imagine)...i wish i could just get up, wash it, and go
*~ i hate being in debt to men for their eternity of military service
*~ having to put up with egotistical male bravado all the time

i hate all of those things, but all those hardships just contribute to being a better chick. i think we should celebrate the differences of being women...(i'll tell you different when i'm on the rag...lol)
*~pobo-has-new-school-supplies! ;D

[SunShine]

I hate everything. It is so unfair to be expected to shave, smell good, dress neatly, be a size six, changing my last name, wearing the tightest most uncomfortable clothes and all that other useless time consuming stuff (Not that I keep up with any of it). Not to mention periods, cramps, PMS big boobs in the way of everything, and childbirth. It really really sucks. I wish I was a guy.

[Gabster]

we cant like go burp in public cuz its not ladylike

Hey, I belch in public all the time! Of course nobody ever calls me ladylike, so I suppose if that's your goal, burping is not the road to take.

Let's see...other stuff:

1. Periods. THEY SUCK. I hate the cramps, the worrying if you've bled through your pants, the PMS, the mood swings, the cravings, the bloated feelings, tampons, pads, EVERYTHING!!!

2. The fact that we're expected to wear dresses, and if we prefer shorts or pants over them, we're suddenly not a girl. It's like, WTF, what I wear *doesn't* change my gender.

3. My mood swings. MAN it sucks when you're all happy one second and the next you want to decapitate everyone in sight and the next you think your life is over because your stupid brother ATE THE LAST SKITTLE!!!

4. Stupid degrading comments from guys. Example: Today I was walking down to McDonald's with some of my (chick) friends during our free period @ school. We got whistled and/or honked @ no less than 5 times. Two times by guys who were 40 years old than us!!! And my field hockey team practices @ my old middle school, @ the same time the 7th/8th grade football team does and we have to endure comments like, "Oh back it up girls!" and "Hey, I'LL run with you baby". GRRR.

5. The chicks we are compared against - Britney Spears, Christina Aguilera, Mandy Moore, etc.

6. Shaving. It sucks. 'Nuff said.

7. Living in a male dominated society and knowing that you will always be taken less seriously than your male counterparts, no matter how much more intelligent/talented/athletic/whatever you are...because you have two X chromosomes instead of one.

[canadiana]

First off, periods. They are the freaking devil. It's so awful. Stupid cramps and feeling bloated and having mood swings. It's not enjoyable at all. I'm sure guys would not last a minute if they had to deal with the monthly pains we go through since they are WUSSES.

Oh, something that goes along with periods... I hate how people (guys especially) assume I am PMS-ing because I may be not so nice one day. I might have been in a bad mood that day. Or maybe I just had a crapass day which contributed to my not so nice behaviour. BUT ... they have to go and tell me to stop PMS-ing. When I'm NOT. Ugh.

I also hate how it seems like we have to take care of how we look so much more than guys. Guys can roll out of bed and grab a sweatshirt and leave. Then girls might be like, "Aaaw, he's got cute bedhead" and such. Not likely a similar scenario would happen, with a girl instead of the guy. How our hair looks, the clothes we're wearing, whether we've shaved or not, if we smell okay... it's all judged by everyone else. Well, it seems like that a lot. It gets annoying during times when I don't want to care.

It's really annoying, too, how my parents are more overprotective because I'm a girl. They're so paranoid that I'll get raped, assaulted, kidnapped, abducted or the combination of them. So they are very reluctant to let me go out by myself. Even a walk to conveniance store 5 minutes away. Yet, my 12 year old brother is allowed to walk around doing God-knows-what with his friends. GRR. So frustrating.

Umm... that's it for now.