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Post by horsesalltheway on Feb 13, 2002 1:02:45 GMT -5
Well, we know what goes through our minds when we go up to our crush or just walk by them in the hallway, but what do you think is going through their minds? (boys please answer this too!)
NiKKi
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Post by LisaRocksYourWorld, yo on Feb 13, 2002 19:52:58 GMT -5
Good question. Do they get tongue tied, and worry about saying something stupid? I'd love to know what goes through a guy's mind at that time. I know I worry about acting like a complete idiot when I talk to my crush.
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Post by CloudOfMist on Feb 14, 2002 19:31:39 GMT -5
I reckon blokes have exactly the same insecurities as we do - but over the last few hundred, or however many years, they've been trained from birth to be the dominant member of a relationship, while we've been trained to let the men do all the chasing. However, it's the 20th Century now, so hey - let's all do the Independant Woman bit and help the guys out. No doubt they'll appreciate it! ;D
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Post by LaliciaBebe on Feb 16, 2002 1:55:15 GMT -5
I think they get really insecure and nervous too, just like us. The other day I was listening to this guy talk to the girl he likes and he was just going on and on about really dumb stuff. He kept stuttering and he was totally boring the girl. It was cute!
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Post by Queen_of_Hollywood on Feb 18, 2002 19:22:55 GMT -5
^^LOL
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Post by CH107 on Feb 19, 2002 21:03:22 GMT -5
"but over the last few hundred, or however many years, they've been trained from birth to be the dominant member of a relationship, while we've been trained to let the men do all the chasing."
lol, been like that since ancient roman times.
what goes through our minds?
well, i know i'm running through all the possible things that can go wrong and i probably sound like a fool when i talk to her.
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Post by zonacruz6 on Feb 19, 2002 21:06:39 GMT -5
I agree with all the above posters. They probably get all nervous and freak out. "What should I do? AHHH" and cute silly stuff like that. But, ya never know, maybe they walk by all macho and take it "like a man". Haha. I don't know. I hope they get nervous, cause otherwise, why do we?!?
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Post by alien_kel on Apr 6, 2002 13:50:41 GMT -5
i am a guy and i am REALLY REALLY REALLY shy. When i walk by my crush my eyes go right to the floor and i think man a girl like that could Never like a geek like me.  |
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Post by ThaInfamousShorty on Apr 6, 2002 14:39:22 GMT -5
AWWW think positively!!!   |
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Post by tootrickyforyou on Apr 13, 2002 22:39:06 GMT -5
Hey kellen : All you need to do, is face your fears. Try not to let her know what your really thinking, look up, and say "hey!" or something....I don't know, just think positively (sp?) Maybe if you're in line by her in lunch, strike up a conversation. Let me know how it goes Anywho....the guy I like right now isn't shy of girls at all. I don't think he really thinks anything, because he's comfortable with almost everyone. I've never seen him with his crush (which sadly, isn't me ) so I don't know what he's thinking when he talks to her. |
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Post by x n0ise on Apr 13, 2002 22:50:02 GMT -5
Well, I don't know what goes through the minds of other guys, but my boyfriend isn't shy at all. He told me that before me and him were going out that he could get pretty much any girl he wanted(and he could). He lead a pretty idiotic life before too(not anymore), though...dating more than one girl, etc. But he said that he was only nervous around me. Which I thought was very odd. Who knows what goes through that mind of theirs! hmph! ;D
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Post by Shrubby on Aug 15, 2002 21:39:39 GMT -5
Yeah, well, Kel, same here. I pass by him and I've already killed all chances of a relationship 'cause I've been not too social with him 'cause I turn red every time. *is a geektard*
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Post by Bruised Evening Sky on Aug 18, 2002 1:14:04 GMT -5
I'm a geektard. I turn completely bitchy around guys I really like for some reason, being kind of silent and not looking directly at them. Once I was watching these two guys TOTALLY flirting with a girl, and they actually competed with one another to get her attention! It was hilarious  |
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Post by funkygirlk16 on Oct 5, 2002 13:32:11 GMT -5
Gosh, if they do they certainly don't show it.  |
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Post by Frosty The Ice-Bitch on Jul 24, 2003 22:33:20 GMT -5
I'm a geektard. I turn completely bitchy around guys I really like for some reason, being kind of silent and not looking directly at them. Me too!! I did was like that to this one guy, till I got the guts to talk to him, since I ski and I knew he snowboarded I asked him about the weather at the ski park, which led to an argument about skiing and snowboarding, uumm ya that didn't work out... Tip for people who want to talk to you crush: DON'T START AN ARGUMENT!!!! |
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