the bases...

[brown_eyed_rudie]

i feel so stupid. i'm almost 17, and i have a question.
what exactly is which base? my younger cousin was asking me what base i had been to or some thing like that,  and i realized that even though i've known that people tend to compare relating to baseball.....i never knew which one was which. i guess i didn't like to think of it being a kind of competition.
anyways, i'm sure all of you cool cats know the answer...please share.

[Cassiopeia]

Well, here's what I think the bases are:

1)  making out
2)  feeling up (above and below the waist)
3)  oral sex
4)  sexual intercourse

And in case you're wondering, I've gone up to 3rd base.

[LisaRocksYourWorld, yo]

I've heard it two ways.  The first way, also the most commonly used, at least where I'm from, is what Cassiopeia just said.  The second varies slightly:

1. French Kiss
2. Feeling (Outside of the clothes)
3. Feeling (Inside of the clothes)
4. Sexual Intercourse

That is sometimes refered to as the "Four F's", as in French, Feel, Finger... And I'm sure you can guess the last one.  

I'm still "Up to Bat" (Just kissed. )

[Cassiopeia]

^^^  What about oral sex?  I mean, it isn't even listed in your version of the bases.  I think the bases are kind of stupid anyway.  There are so many sexual things you can do, and some of them aren't necessarily "farther" than others.  However, if someone asks me how far I've gotten (a close friend, obviously.  otherwise, it's none of their business) I think it sounds a lot nicer to just saw that I've gone up to 3rd base.  Most people understand what that means.

[LisaRocksYourWorld, yo]

I don't even use that form. I, too, think it's stupid.  The whole "bases" thing is just something we pretty much stopped using in 6th grade.  What someone thinks of as going "far" is totally subjective.  It's easier and more mature just to say how far you've gone, or, even better, keep your sex life to yourself.

[x n0ise]

I, also, could care less about the bases.  I've only gone up to 2nd base anyways.

[Michaelangelo]

Yep, like Lisa said...the four F's! Even though it's been years, I still remember them...
Anyway:
1st = kissing
2nd = feeling your breasts
sloppy 2nd = kissing/licking your breasts
3rd = fingering
sloppy 3rd = oral sex
4th = sex
haha. I'm still in 4th grade...ahh!
Love,
~The Kitten~

[Royal_Princess112]

LisaRocksTheWorld said:

"... keep your sex life to yourself."

i agree. i think ppl should keep it to themselves-  especially if they're in a public place (i've heard some girls talkin' about their sexual exploits at the hair salon.   )

btw, i'm not even at 1st base yet. i'd rather be in a relationship w/ someone who wants to be w/ me b/c  of my  mind, not b/c of the bases, what i'm like in bed, ect.

[dream10]

Fingering what?

[x n0ise]

A girls vagina.

[tootrickyforyou]

I'm still in line coming up to bat .  I haven't even been kissed yet (not really....some kid kissed me when I was 5, but that doesn't really count )

BTW, that was informative for me .  I was never quite sure what "the bases" were.  I had an idea....but other than that, no ;D

[dizzyupthegirl]

Hey.... thanx for clearing the "bases" up... i was confused by taht whole bases stuff.
Yea.. i agree that u shud just keep ur love life to urself and not tlak about it openly. My friends brag about the bases still... and i wud be just thinking how they are trying to make up lies about it. Cuz i mean they are still 13 and they sthink they've gone to the fourth base. And i know these ppl pretty well.... and i think most of them are still 1st base. And if u guys are interested.... im in between 1st. I wish i havent gone to the first base, cuz it was a bad hit....