How do u meet your boys?

[Boo-Boo_Harris]

Hey, just wonderin-
  how do you meet your guys?  school, work, internet?  i like to meet mine online, cuz then you get to talk to them and get to know them, so then you can know if they are cool for b/f or just friends

[LisaRocksYourWorld, yo]

School.  I'm only 14 so I don't work, and I don't talk to people I don't know on the internet.  You can get to know people pretty well in school.  Of course the whole physical attraction thing can get in the way at first.  A lot of girls I know look past that, though.  There's this one guy, who's considered a "nerd" to some people, but he has a lot of girls that like him because he's a great person.  The guy I like isn't considered "hot" to other people, but he's gorgeous to me.  People are actually getting less shallow.  I'm always a bit cautious on the internet... I like seeing the person I'm talking to.  *shrugs* Just me.

[x n0ise]

Well, I don't really work.  So I meet people through school, church & church activities, when my friends and I go out we meet guys, etc.  I met my current boyfriend through church.  He just moved here and started going to the same church/youth group as me...and we just got to know each other as more than friends.  So it's pretty cool.  ;D

[.AnotherNightAlone.]

I never met any guy off the interne, well i have friends, but I mean I wouldn't go out with one. You just never know with the internet.

Anways... school always seems to be a good place. Another really good one is sports and or some other after school activities.

[x.just.a.little.grL.x]

Most of my guy friends I have become friends with in school a little bit, and then I talk to them online and become better friends with them.  Other guy friends I meet through friends of friends or something, and some of them live in different towns, like 15-20 minutes away.

[GabiGirl23]

I tend to meet my guy friends at school, and I get to know them better by hanging out with them or talking to them on the internet/phone. Same goes for my crushes. Sometimes I meet guys at church, or I get to know them better through church. Those are pretty much my only options, since I don't work and talking to people on the internet kinda scares me, 'cause I'm paranoid like that.

[tam]

I meet them at school, at drama... And there are a lot of guys that hang around with my other guy friends that I've met.  That's basically it though.

[zonacruz6]

"i like to meet mine online, cuz then you get to talk to them and get to know them, so then you can know if they are cool for b/f or just friends"
You can get to know guys anywhere. I like to meet guys at school, cause I have usually seen him around and I know if he seems nice and all. I don't work right now, so I can't meet guys there. Plus, it's easier to maintain a friendship/relationship if your friend/boyfriend goes to your school. But, that's just my opinion.

[thevoicewithin]

I don't like meeting mine at school because there are slim pickings. They are either stuck-up, players, or inexperienced.

I like meeting mine through my older friends. The older guys seem more mature. EX: I'll go out on a Friday night and meet bunches of friends. At my friend's b-day party I met some really cool guys and we became good friends through the phone. Although, it is better if you see them often though, because then you're left wanting a guy/girl, any guy/girl, and that leads to cheating.

I also like meeting them through church. i met a really cute guy through church and we hung out for awhile.

[*Little Leprechaun Gurl*]

I meet most of the guys through school or through friends friends or through church. I usually meet them there and then get to know them better on the phone/internet.

[ThaIceLady]

[glow=red,2,300]School, and going out[/glow]

[Dave Herald]

I met my boyfriend online 4 years ago. We met a year later (with friends, of course), and ended up moving in together not long after that. We've been together for over 3 years now.

True, the internet isn't 100% safe, bur neither is "real life." And as far as I'm concerned, nobody ever said your life companion had to be right in the neighborhood.

But like others have said, you can meet guys anywhere, internet, school, church, etc. But just because you can see them and touch them, doesn't make them any safer than people online.

[averagegurl]

I meet guys usually through friends... and in school.. its really hard. Cuz most of 'em are my friends... and i treat them like they're my brothers. So its hard to find any romantic feelings towards them. Now that only works for the guys in my grade.
For the rest of the guys in my school... the older ones just think that im their lil sister or just the " cute lil kid". So i gave up with those guys long ago.
So that left one option... the younger guys. Lolz... rite now i'm dating this guy who is a year younger than me.. but more experience. .... he looks like he's 16 and act like it too... so its all good.
Another option is going to this one mall in my town.. if ur lucky.. u mite meet some decent guys there... and they're pretty nice.

[LaurenSC87]

well the ones at school i've known forever but i meet most of my guys through my neighbors who go to different schools and through their friends and also at mixers cuz i love the private school guys they are so much better then the guys at my school

[PhillyBlunts]

Mainly through people I know or school. Some through the net. Some randomly on the street or shopping or something.