nimue
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Post by nimue on Feb 25, 2002 15:51:35 GMT -5
Yes it did in fact crash burn and melt at 3:14pm today. Kid who sits behind me in homeroom is talking to me and a crapload of other kids. "Don't you hate it when guys chuck stuff at girls and it hits there boobs? Which you don't have Julie.u]OH THE HUMANITY[/u]In front of all those people. I'm usually quite comfortable with my body-I'm in the 7th grade-plenty of time. I try to enjoy the privlege of not having to wear a bra all the time But oh no not even the thought of Gwen Stephani can get me out of this.
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Post by tootrickyforyou on Feb 26, 2002 15:53:56 GMT -5
Awww, I'm sorry hun! Boys can be jerks sometimes. If YOUR comfortable with your appearance (and yes, you were before those guys said that) then you shouldn't listen to what they said. And yes, you do have a long time to "develop". If your only in the 7th grade, there's plenty of time  . |
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Post by LaliciaBebe on Feb 26, 2002 20:03:26 GMT -5
It's really easy to let other people make you feel like crap, but you can't let them. What does that kid know? What gave him the right to make you feel bad? Don't listen. If you feel comfortable with yourself then that's all that matters. There will always be people who enjoy cutting other people down, but if you listen to them then they win and you can't let that happen. Always remember this: No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.
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Post by Cassiopeia on Feb 26, 2002 20:32:08 GMT -5
Did you really let one little comment like that destroy your self-esteem? Seriously, do you care what he thinks? First of all, you're in middle school. Kids at that age can be very cruel. *Everyone* gets teased in some way. The people who tease you are far from perfect as well. They just have low self-esteem, and that's why they try to make you feel bad. Be the more mature person, and ignore it. Second of all, I'm assuming you're 12 or 13. You still have A LOT of growing to do. I've grown 2 full cup sizes since I was that age. And by that time, my figure had already started to develop, and my boobs still grew. Your chest is probably no where near the size and shape it will be when you are finished growing. And take a look around you. I bet that 75% of the people in your grade don't have boobs either, and a lot of the ones who do probably stuff. Sure there are going to be a couple girls who have D-cups before they start high school, but that's rare. Anyway, even if you are only an A cup by the time you finish growing, does it really matter? Don't worry that guys aren't going to like you because of it, because a guy who rejects you based on your boobs is not worth your time.
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vbkimber07
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Post by vbkimber07 on Mar 18, 2002 20:21:58 GMT -5
In 7th grade that kind of thing can really hurt. All your life it can really hurt. But don't let it get to you. Think of all the times you have been proud of your body. There are many more small-chested people in this world than some people think. And you will still grow. Even if you don't, who cares. If it really bothers you, get a padded bra in a couple of years. But enjoy this time right now, when you don't "have" to wear a bra. Remember--small boobs are sexy!
PS-Does anyone else think this guy could like Julie? Sometimes 7th grade boys aren't too good at that kind of things (take my younger brother). I mean he did notice. Okay, I'll shut up now, I sound like my mom. Remember, it will feel better tomorrow. And even better the day after.
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