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Post by Michaelangelo on Mar 15, 2002 23:09:09 GMT -5
I got teased relentlessly since I was little until 7th grade. I finally learned to respect myself and my body in 8th grade, and since then I've really not gotten any crap from anyone. Just hold yourself with confidence (no matter how cliche it sounds) and people will definitely respect you. Love, ~The Kitten~
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Post by PrettyGirl_Is_Suffering on Apr 18, 2002 15:35:22 GMT -5
The worst nasty comments are when they are from you friends.... this year I had a really big fight with my two closet friends. They said some things i can never forget. Not about the way I look but the way I am and shit. About how I was so pathetic and I wasn't really depreast at all and had no friends. No one has ever said anything about the way I look exept I have abig nose and "a big headd" (according to one person) I also dress in mainly black and get alot of sh*t from it. But i always have good comebacks back. One person was like "not to be mean or anything but goth is so stupid and you shouldn't dress like" And i said "Not to be mean or anything but I don't really care what you think" The worst nasty comments are on IM becuase the person can say anything and not see the expresion or the hurt on someones face.
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Post by *Little Leprechaun Gurl* on Sept 3, 2002 11:23:57 GMT -5
"The worst nasty comments are on IM becuase the person can say anything and not see the expresion or the hurt on someones face." Amen....
Yes..I did get 13 comments in one day...I was having a rather limpy day...and I guess people's self-esteem were at all-time low's so they picked on the "hobbly kid" Yes it hurt...but now when I think about it...they're just stupid. God made me the way I am...and if that includes "limpy" then thats how I wanna be, and if other people cant handle that then thats their problem.
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Post by Gabbie on Sept 3, 2002 14:26:37 GMT -5
no one really very says anything about me and if they do its behind my back, and i'm really straight with people if i don't like them they'll know and sometimes i think people that i'm mean because of it, but really i have the same feelings as everyone else, if someone says something mean to me i just say something right back and i don't think about it to much. once someone who i guess is a friend was teasing me but he does that all the time so i don't really care and then finally the guy i like was just like okay stop theres nothing wrong with her you've got a lot of problems yourself and i didn't think he was even doing anything wrong because we always do like, but for someone to defend me like that and espically when i liked them it was really cool. also the guy that i liked who defended me was saying all of this to his cousin, i'm sure it got a lot of shit for it, but of well. the worst i've ever been called is a bitch but thats not that bad since sometimes i am and i know it to, i just let it roll off my back, i try not to think about it, if people are going to be that way you don't need them in your life.
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Post by Alyssa on Sept 5, 2002 10:56:31 GMT -5
In 8th grade, for almost the entire year, this one guy left no opportunity unused to be mean to me. Insulted the way I am, my looks, everything. For soem reason though, I just didn't care too much, and now I'm basically immune to that type of stuff (except from certain people of course - there are some people who insult you and it hurts). I got it every day: the "you look like shit", "you're ugly", "haha, you don't have any friends", "you are sooo fuckin dumb".... although I do think there are people who couldn't have ignored that. If I had been a more sensitive person I would have gone to pieces. But I got through it, it stopped, and I'm stronger now (not saying I'd willingly go through it again or anything).
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Post by RebDoMINe on Sept 5, 2002 18:31:24 GMT -5
People will tell you to ignore it, but it's not exactly easy to do. I was made fun of shamelessly from first grade through seventh grade (when it reached the point of death threats, the police were brought in, and I went into homeschool). I was teased a little bit after I moved by random people, which was really hard on me, because I had these really high hopes that I'd make good friends here.
I became very reclusive, but the few times I did go out, some peer of mine would happen by and call me an ugly bitch or loser or a number of other far, far worse things. It became extremely embarassing for me, too, when my little brother would be outside with me and hear these comments. He couldn't see why his nice big sister was having so many mean things said.
For about two years, the only friend I had was my best friend, who lives in another state. As miserable as I was, I got to respect myself more than anyone.
Now I have two very close friends (one being my best friend). At this point, I have grown not to trust or even like most people, and I have the belief that humans are naturally horrible beings. I also think that very few people have the ability to be even slightly intelligent. I have little regard for human life because no one had any regard for my emotions.
But, I don't take as much crap now. And when I do, I'm able to realize how truly stupid these people are, and how inane their comments are.
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Post by VanilleRum on Feb 19, 2003 10:52:06 GMT -5
I still get a nasty comet from time to time, But not nearly as bad as it was when I was back in High school Especially the lower grades like 8-10. I will never forget the first time I steped foot on a High school campuss. I was waiting to get on the bus and a older girl stuck her face in mine and said "EWWWWW" really loud. I crushed me. I have been told I was ugly a lot In HS so now it is hard to belive when People say I am prety of beautifull
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Post by ThaIceLady on Feb 19, 2003 19:23:05 GMT -5
We've all been there where someone has said something rude and nasty. You just can't believe what they say. Believe in yourself cause if you don't you end up trying to be what you aren't just so you won't have people pick on you anymore, but no matter what people are always gonna have something nasty or rude to say to each other. So you just gotta believe in yourself and f--what they all say.
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Post by iNsAnE.cAnAdIaN on Mar 27, 2003 3:02:00 GMT -5
Yeah, those nasty comments really do hurt. "Sticks and stones may break my bones but words will scar forever" is the way I see it. I am a pretty good actress when it comes to acting like it doesnt hurt when people say things, but they definitely leave a scar. For example, in grade 7 a "friend" of mine told me that everone laughed about my big nose behind my back. Up until that point I had loved my nose, but then I started realizing how ugly it is and since then I have been SUPER self conscience about it. Now, all of those little comment people have said to me have added up and caused me to have a terrible self image. I wish I could just brush these feelings away, but I cant ever seem to. insane
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Post by ThaIceLady on Mar 27, 2003 9:38:46 GMT -5
^^*Aww hugs girl* Don't listen to them losers! That sticks and stones may break your bones but words scar forever is true!! Sometimes what people say to me sometimes sticks in my head. Grrr stupid people!! lol
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Post by _redbutteRfly on Apr 6, 2003 10:46:11 GMT -5
The last comment I got was from ***** when she told me that I looked horrible. I just replied, "Whatever." If you show that you don't care what they say, they'll move on. -¤Candolio¤-
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Post by ThaIceLady on Apr 7, 2003 17:29:44 GMT -5
That's true also. Most of the time if you show you don't care or what they say doesn't affect you, then they will shutup.
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Post by Spazmatikal on Apr 7, 2003 19:31:29 GMT -5
I've realized that there is no real way to get rid of the crappy things that people say to you. No matter what you do, wear, say, think... someone will find a problem with it somewhere. The key is to be comfortable in your own skin and let the comments roll off your back. If you're happy with who you are, screw everyone else. It's their problem if they want to talk crap, not yours. And like other people are saying... if you show that you don't care, more likely than not... they'll stop.
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Post by paradoxPanda on Apr 20, 2003 15:24:58 GMT -5
I don't get a lot of negative comments...I don't really have enemies or girls who really hate me (though I'm sure they don't all like me). In fact, my sister is really the only one who has called me ugly or anything.
Of course, there have been a few digs, but it hasn't affected me that much.
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Post by Frosty The Ice-Bitch on May 12, 2003 21:59:11 GMT -5
I have this friend and I'll be talking to him or somthing and his other friend will come up outta no where and be like "hey stop flirting with the ugly chick" and it pisses me off!!!! i used to wear this Fubu shirt that had a FB on the front and said fubu in cursive under it and everytime i wore it this one guy on the bus would say the FB stood for fat bitch or flat boobs or somthing stupid like that at the time it really hurt but i've shook it off by now. Needless to say i still to this day don't wear the shirt anymore because i got sick of the crap i got for it!
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