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Post by canadiana on Sept 20, 2003 15:50:19 GMT -5
I wasn't sure if I should've posted in "Love Life" under "I need quick advice" ... but I don't really need "quick" advice, therefore it didn't really fit there ... but yeah, I'm confused about certain things regarding GUYS.
Ok, so there's this guy Kyle. Everyone kept hinting that he liked me, or asking me questions about guys and eventually narrowing it down to him. But yeah, he asked me to the movies on time ... and I accepted. We went, had a good time, he held my hand ... and that was about it. But since then we haven't really talked about... "us" or anything. And once me, Kyle and another girl were all in a conversation and it went like this:
kyle: janice (the other girl) do you want a boyfriend?
janice: not really... do you a girlfriend? and su (taht's me), do you want a boyfriend?
kyle: no... i just like chillin'
So ... was this just like a hanging out thingy when we went to the movies? But then why did he hold my hand?
But you see, I don't even know why this should matter because I'm not even sure if I like him ...
I have another issue with another guy ... but I'll leave this at is for now. I'll save the other thing for another day.
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Post by ThaIceLady on Sept 20, 2003 21:00:28 GMT -5
^argh man isn't that confusing. I think he had to like you a little if he asked you to the movies..but maybe he doesn't want a girlfriend at the moment?
We need a guys opinion! Guys get your butts in here and help a girl out lol
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Post by canadiana on Sept 20, 2003 22:23:44 GMT -5
^yeah, I def. need a guy's opinion.
OH another important thing ... he was talking to this other guy and he said, "She's too cool for me". 'She' being ME. So ... maybe he thinks he's not good enough for me?
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Post by ThaIceLady on Sept 20, 2003 22:42:10 GMT -5
^that could be the case.
I was talking to a guy and he said most guys don't have much confidence around girls...
guys are confusing..
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Post by strangelilboi on Sept 21, 2003 4:31:31 GMT -5
^^ haha......oi!   Hmmm...i wonder who sed that!
Shall i post here...? Nah u dont need my advice do u?
For the mo, think abt this one thing.... playing hard to get --> reverse psychology...perhaps.
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Post by YourCapnSpeaking on Sept 21, 2003 20:15:43 GMT -5
DO NOT PLAY HARD TO GET!!
If he truely did say that he thought you were too cool for him, then this situation is already delicate enough as it is.
In that conversation and your hand holding thing, he's trying to be suave. Trust me, that is a technique that is proven to work with some women. What you need to do first and foremost is figure out whether or not you like Kyle. If not, just treat it like a normal situation. If you do, then you should ask him out or flirt a little and have him ask you out.
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Post by ThaIceLady on Sept 21, 2003 21:34:54 GMT -5
^^ haha......oi! Hmmm...i wonder who sed that!
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Post by busybodies on Sept 22, 2003 7:11:06 GMT -5
I definitely think he likes you but he isn't confident that you like him back and he doesn't want to make things akward. If he talks about you like that to his friends and held your hand at the movies... I think he has a thing for you. I'm going with YourCapnSpeaking on how to handle the situation.
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Post by YourCapnSpeaking on Sept 22, 2003 18:17:13 GMT -5
Well, there ya have it Canadiana.
And everyone call me David.
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Post by canadiana on Sept 22, 2003 22:33:55 GMT -5
Thanks DAVID and everyone else.
I think you're right though about how I shouldn't play hard to get ... I might've come across that way a little because I sort of didn't talk to him as much after we went to the movies, but I didn't really mean to. I was (and am still) trying to sort out my feelings.
I had a conversation with Kyle yesterday...
kyle says:
hey... why is that we talk less and less with one another each week now... well at least it seems like it...
su says:
what do you mean?
su says:
like at church?
kyle says:
yeah...
kyle says:
i dunno maybe its just me
su says:
well i talked to you more this week than the week before cuz i didn't see you then
kyle says:
haha.. yeah
kyle says:
i dunno i think i'm retarded
su says:
lol
su says:
you ALWAYS say that
su says:
and you're not
kyle says:
cuz i am
kyle says:
it just seems like since we went to the movies... things arent' as "cool" between us
su says:
yeah, i dunno.. i guess it seems a little awkward
kyle says:
i dunno...
kyle says:
i just wish it wasn't
su says:
yeah... i think it's kinda because of other church people cuz... yea, i dunno how to explain it
kyle says:
yeah... that definately didn't help
su says:
not at all... but oh well
kyle says:
yeah oh well
kyle says:
but we're still cool right?
su says:
yea
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It's the first time we've ever talked about when we went the movies, since we went.
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Post by strangelilboi on Sept 23, 2003 12:11:21 GMT -5
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Post by canadiana on Sept 24, 2003 19:21:55 GMT -5
^I should do what?
Haha, no my name's not Diana. It's just canadiana because I took CANADIAN and added an 'a'. Because it sounded more girly that way.
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Post by strangelilboi on Sept 25, 2003 18:02:48 GMT -5
Anyways i was saying maybe u shud really hint or just go right on and tell him how u feel abt him. Before the moment is lost.
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Post by canadiana on Sept 26, 2003 0:45:27 GMT -5
^But but but... the problem is, I don't know what I feel!
AND I don't know for sure if he still feels the same as he did before...
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Post by canadiana on Sept 26, 2003 21:51:32 GMT -5
...actually, I think I do like him.
I went bowling tonight with a whole bunch of people, including him. We talked a little, but not much, since we were on different teams and everything. But yeah, one of my friends was excessively flirting with him, and he was too. Or maybe they were just silly and fooling around. But it sure as hell made me jealous.
Ugh this seems so incredibly stupid.
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Hmmm...i wonder who sed that!
Wot does everyone else think? Coz i dont want to ruin ur chances Canadiana.... listen to everyone before u jump into it. 
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