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[LisaRocksYourWorld, yo]

Okay, I'll put in my two cents now.

I'm a girl. I can be incredibly moody. I find that the more time I spend with people, whether I'm the one who talked to them first or not, the more they begin to irritate me.

Heres the thing. My best friend in the world is this guy who I've known for 11 years. We hang out a lot, but he gets on my nerves sometimes because its just human nature. I get on his nerves, too.

If you're with someone a lot, you're going to see them in their best moods and their worst moods. I don't know how to word it any better than that, I'm sorry if that sounds confusing.

I'm not going to say stop talking to her, stop hanging out with her, pretend she doesn't exist, etc. Because I've been in similar positions, and I know it's much easier said than done. Just give her a little space, let her know you're still there and she'll come back when she's had a little time to herself.

[YourCapnSpeaking]

All right everyone, thank you so much. And that last reply I think was the best advice that I have heard so far. I actually did just stop initiating everything at school and she came back.

Just today we met up at Wal-Mart and did a little shopping. We then went to the mall with my little brother and hung out with one of her friends, who is also a friend of mine and never saw the problem to begin with.

Michelle's B-Day is actually coming up, and we are supposed to have it at my house, but she can only have 8 people. She has two friends who are both over 20 and one of them is like 30 and has a son who she baby sits. She doesn't even think the two adults are coming. But she also cut the list down to like 8 people who our age. So now I have to talk to my dad and try to change his mind. We are also buying everything for the party, we are just using my house since there is no where else to really have it.