Girls...are looks really important.

[zonacruz6]

Ok, this is going to start off sounding REALLY shallow, but I'm being honest. I saw Mike in Spanish class 8 months ago. when I saw him, I was like, "Oh my God, he is gorgeous." I wanted to get to know him. But see, not only did I see him as this beautiful creature, I knew there was something special about him. And there is. Once my immature nature passed about him, I realized that I saw him for a reason- to fall in love. He is a great person -inside and out. Yes, he's very good-looking, but that is just a bonus. Heh.

[LisaRocksYourWorld, yo]

^^^That doesn't sound shallow at all.  It's how a lot of people first meet someone.  

I like this guy.  Honestly, he's Level 3 Hotness (My friends and I make up levels-- Level 1: Cute, Level 2: Hot, Level 3: Instant-Orgasm).  When I first saw him (and when I still do see him), I melt.  But then when I talked to him, I realized that he's incredibly nice, funny, and sensitive.  Like your guy, his looks are only a nice bonus now.

[SunShine]

Honestly, looks don't matter to me. Once I talk to a guy that is really nice and funny and has the best personality, it really shines through and when I look at him, he is the most beautiful guy ever.

[tam]

If you had asked me this a while ago I would have said ya absolutely but I've changed my mind recently!

In my class there's a guy, Matthew, who is drop-dead-gorgeous! But he has such an attitude I just don't wanna now him, it just puts me totally off!

But they are pretty important. Not really so much to me but to be seen with someone utterly ugly is a big embarrassing so you have to have some standard. Mine is if my friends say he's OK... call me shallow?

Their opinion means a lot to me unless I was madly in love which I have not been...

[eyezofgold]

The looks are really that important. I think that it is a little bit of a factor, but what really matters its that they have a good personality.

[bright_angel]

I agree with might. I mean we are made with a personality if we didnt have a good personality we would hardly have any friends or support. Someone may look very pretty and have all the boys, and someone may be very casual and have the best love life and friends. Looks are nothing to me...i mean if you have a good personality that means your beutiful thats real beauty. If you look good thats just fake. To be beutaiful u have to see it in a person. And no one is ugly no matter what

[ThaIceLady]

To me, in order for me to be attracted to them? Yea, but once I get to know them any flaws I notice later on I don't focus on as much if they're personality is awesome. But of course, looks are important.

[RebDoMINe]

I admit that at some point I do notice looks, but everyone does. I definitely don't notice looks first, though. If I don't hate a person right off, I get to know them and eventually I may grow to like them.

I tend to find guys attractive when I like them, and that's where looks come in. But they're unimportant to me.

Sure, there are certain types of guys that I think are better looking than others, but that's very different.

[canadiana]

Yes, looks are definitely important. The guy doesn't have to be a Josh Hartnett lookalike (although that would be QUITE nice), he just has to have something about him which I am physically attracted to.

It usually works in two ways (from my experiences).

Sometimes I get attracted to a guy as soon as I see him. Like, just from the start I think the guy is good-looking. From there I get to know him and if I like him as a person as well, then WAHOO. If not... then that's too bad. Another pretty boy wasted.

Other times, I hang around with the guy because I enjoy being with him. Just buddies, y'know. But as time goes by, I start thinking, "Hmm, he's actually kind of cute now that I think about it". And then a crush develops.

I've had both happen to me so yeah... I know what it's about.

[BLUE]

Posted by: sweet_dreams Posted on: 13.04.02 at 05:21:14
Looks are nothing compared 2 what a real personality is like


^^ i totally agreee!!

a good personality is definitely better,,if the guy has a good personality and i like him because of the way he thinks then i will find him attractive no matter what...looks come and go but personalities dont so looks arent really important

[Alyssa]

Not really important. Good looks are a sort of added bonus if the personality's right, but plain good looks without personality really don't do anything for me. I think a slighty humoured/ironic/sarcastic/whatever look in someone's eye is a thousand times more attractive than picture-perfect teeth or body-builder muscles.

[Stepharoola]

I like this guy named Cory. He is VERY cute. But he's got the sweetest personality around.

[PhillyBlunts]

They have to have a great personality and have decent looks. But overall, personality is much more important.

[Medley]

My husband is really cute, even if he refuses to believe it. But I'd still love him just the same if he wasn't.
Looks absolutely do not matter to me. And I tend to sometimes get in flame wars online with guys who only care about looks.

[hallowsorange]

Here is a guys point of view...NO!!! Personality makes and I mean makes EVERYTHING. Good looking girls with a great personality is rare and very hard to come by. Looks are a plus. 90% of the beautiful girls I have ever met are stuck up *******, w h o r e s, no fun, only go for the "pretty" guys, stupid, lifes based on items/money, thinks looks are everything, and I could go on for 5 pages or more. But I like girls who don't worry about makup, matching clothes, ect... Shaving legs and armpits might be nice though. Personally when I hear a girl fart or burp, I find that perfectly OK. She has no reason to say exucse me. It is actually kind of cute in ways. I mean, it is only natural. Everybody does it.