Men and their Mixed Messages

[LisaRocksYourWorld, yo]

Has your boyfriend or crush ever done something that just totally confused you?   Rant about those damn mixed messages here!

[Curv@ciousk@tie]

Yes this guy_Russel says he likes me and everything and sms's me all the time. Then I c him in youth and he gives me a huge hug and stare in the eyes and then goes to say hi 2 all the other chicks and hardly speaks 2 me 4 the rest of the night. Personally i think he is such a player and such a flirt! He doesn't treat the other girls the same way he treats me but he is such a flirt!  

[zonacruz6]

I hate it, but usually guys give me the message, "I don't want you." so I just stay away. They're not too mixed for me.

[x.just.a.little.grL.x]

Oh God, try all my guy friends/crushes do that to me!    I have this one friend, we'll call him Adam...He'll hug me and cuddle and talk with me one moment and be nice and stuff, and then the next moment, it's like, I get the cold shoulder.  I suppose we girls do this too, but we're the ones who are supposed to be playing hard to get, right? LoL.  Well, in my case, I just do the same things he does to me, and it's a chain, and I don't know how it'll ever stop!   LoL.

[britney_spears]

OMG! AFChika....thats exactly what this one guy does to me! Do you think he likes you, or is just messing around? Cuz this guy is totally confusing me!

[x.just.a.little.grL.x]

Britney, I honesty can't tell.  I mean sometimes I think he likes me, but then when he's all odd and quiet around me, I start thinking that he just doesn't want to get to close.  Guys are so confusing.  

[thevoicewithin]

about a year ago i liked this guy. any girl would think a guy liked you if he smiled at you constantly and stared at you right? well that is what this one guy did. so i told him i liked him. you know what his response was? "i dont care if you like me because i certaintly dont like you!" i was so pissed off. i told him off in a way that is not typable here. sometimes it still gets me. ooohhh. just thinking about that jerk makes me want to kick some major booty.

~*darling*~

[Ms.Thang_Has-It-All]

I wish guys would make up their mind. But us females do it some times too, like when we try to make them a lil bit jealous ( don't know if yall do that ). I wonder if they do that too.

[-*- Little Miss Strawberry -*-]

In answer to the original qu., yeah! My ex-bf told me I was the most attractive girl ever. He stopped liking me after a month. I didn't like him either, so don't think there's any bitter feelings, but he told me a load of rubbish. OR he told me stuff he only meant short-term. Either way, it confused me!

[x.just.a.little.grL.x]

OMG, this is happening to me AGAIN! An "ex" (I don't know what you'd consider him..I was just together with him)...He'll tell me he wants to work things out, so we did stuff together again, and now I get the cold shoulder!! I mean, he doesn't even specify what happened between us..Ugh, such a user...

[RebDoMINe]

I used to like this guy, Alex (read: USED to. No longer. Yuck.), and he's a very um...sexual person. So to speak. He likes to be really flirty and open about sexuality and crap, but I'm not really like that. He knew I liked him and was really good about it, and refused to let it get in the way of us being friends.

Last year, I didn't notice this flirtiness as much as I do now, although it hasn't really changed all that much, maybe just a little. This year, it seems like he's constantly telling me I'm hot, making some weird comments about whatever...and I'm not really into it. I don't like him anymore, but I think it would be a little bit awkward to go and say to him, "Hey, Alex, I really have no interest in you anymore, and I also don't see you as much of a friend." I mean, it just doesn't make any sense. I don't know if he's picked up on my being distant and only talking to him if I'm forced to or not, but I'm annoyed by this.

I used to get a ton of mixed signals from him, and now, it's almost like he likes me when I don't like him. Maybe he's one of those guys that only likes girls who don't like him back

[Alyssa]

Hm, yes.... this guy sends pretty mixed messages: does loads of things that would make anyone think he's totally crushing on me, then goes out with another girl and writes her love letters, then, when I start ignoring him, starts up the "I-like-you"-messages again!

*grrrr* *is confuzzled*

[*Little Leprechaun Gurl*]

Ooooh!! I gotcha...see my good good friend Brett from like kindergarten...is so dang confusing! He left my school two years ago but we remained freinds and we used to go out (for almost a year and a half) But anywhooo, I asked my best guy friend this q last night:

Me: From a guy's perspective what would it mean if you hadnt seen me in a couple months and havent talked to me in a couple monthes and all the sudden you randomly saw me and now am calling me and inviting me places?

Him: it prolly means that he forgot what you look like and when he saw you again and started talking to ya he got hooked on ya.

It makes sooo much sence too! *sigh* and I thought maybe he wanted what we used to have ya know, a good friendship...oofta.

[YourCapnSpeaking]

I really do not understand how some guys can send mixed messages ... I know we're weird sometimes ... but in all honesty, guys are basic.

All you have to do to get a guy is fulfill a small list of needs and we're in love.

We're like cavemen ... You can ask a guy this:

You: "What's good?"
Him: "Woman."

You: "What's better?"
Him: "Two woman."

You: "What's better than that?"
Him: "FIVE WOMAN!"


But seriously, a real good way to get a guy's attention is food.

[strangelilboi]

^^^ lol....but in a way its true.

We simple. Like wood....no not thick! Simple... i jsut cant find anotehr example.