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Post by Zephron2000 on Apr 14, 2002 22:57:39 GMT -5
How are you supposed to start a conversation with a guy you don't know, have no classes with, and is probably way out of your reach? But he has no girlfriend though!
Thanks!
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Post by vbkimber07 on Apr 15, 2002 22:33:31 GMT -5
Start with a "hi" or "hey" in the hallway when you pass. Make sure you pass in the hallway a lot. Don't think of him as a potential relationship, think of him as friend--he just doesn't know it yet. Then ask him how he is or what's up after the hi or hey. Now the scouting comes in. What does he like to do? What do you have in common. Start by asking him something about one of these two things--and you have a conversation. Don't ask me how to keep it going--I don't have that down yet
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Post by Zephron2000 on Apr 16, 2002 0:29:19 GMT -5
Ok, I'm going to try that! I can't wait!!!! I am so utterly and completely in love with him and the funny thing is we have never exchanged one word! I really don't know what my problem is. Just lately, I haven't been able to get to sleep until really late because I'll be thinking of him so much! Isn't love wonderful?
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Post by :: Natalie :: on Apr 24, 2002 11:24:41 GMT -5
"Hey" "Hi" "What's up?" "Not much, you?" "Nothin..." Once I get past that...now what? This happens all the time!
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Post by thevoicewithin on Jun 11, 2002 18:28:26 GMT -5
Maybe you could say: "What did you do this weekend?" "Have you seen that new movie?" "Isn't {insert teachers name here} a real witch?" "Do you play sports? Which one's?" There are lots of possibilities, maybe you can find out his interests from one of his friends and go from there. Hope I've helped!
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Post by Alyssa on Nov 24, 2002 9:37:09 GMT -5
Okay: there's this guy. We see ech other everyday, we've known each other for two years, but we never really have a conversation. Every Friday he takes the same train as I do after school, and we have about 15mins. This has happened twice so far, and we haven't talked at all, because we're shy. What could I say?
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Post by Alyssa on Nov 29, 2002 10:18:24 GMT -5
It's so hard! We'll try to start a conversation, but it'll just sort of stop. I do think he likes me, there's a heap of signs, but it's so hard to get a conversation going. When I try, he sometimes picks up on it, or uses really irrelevant things to talk to me, but it still won't work. Help?
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Post by ThaIceLady on Nov 30, 2002 11:29:46 GMT -5
Bring up music, school, holiday shopping, ask him what he's hopping to get for Christmas....there's some ideas. Good luck girl!
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Post by Alyssa on Nov 30, 2002 17:55:30 GMT -5
Thanks! I already tried holiday shopping, which just resulted in "I don't know! It's November!". But I'll try out the rest
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Post by Midnight55309 on Feb 4, 2003 23:11:16 GMT -5
I would assume this would work with girls too?
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Post by Stepharoola on Feb 4, 2003 23:16:53 GMT -5
Why don't you try it and see?
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Post by Midnight55309 on Feb 4, 2003 23:21:46 GMT -5
I hope that's a yea, because I don't want to go and embarass myself and look like this poor little man: -|- /\
He's a little messed up too. ;D
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Post by Stepharoola on Feb 4, 2003 23:26:08 GMT -5
I guess it would work.
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Post by ThaIceLady on Feb 6, 2003 16:02:47 GMT -5
Hell yea it works. Any guy who came up to me and starting talking and had a couple of things to say would get my attention.
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Post by hallowsorange on Aug 31, 2003 21:10:07 GMT -5
Cu'mon, it's really not that hard. Just go up to him and say "Hello." that easy. then say whatever the hell you want. Most likely he is stupid and probably not listining to you anyways. Those *******. Some people can be so nieve. I think you girls try WAY, WAY, WAY too hard with us. Don't stress it.
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