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Post by x.just.a.little.grL.x on Feb 11, 2002 21:49:30 GMT -5
Come here and explain what your crush does/says to you, and we'll all help interpret what it means!
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Post by Cassiopeia on Feb 12, 2002 11:41:46 GMT -5
There's this guy I really like, and he works where I used to work. I'm debating over whether or not I should ask him out. I actually went there last friday to ask him, but he wasn't there, so I couldn't. I'm pretty sure he's there on wednesdays, so I want to go tomorrow. I mean, I think he might be interested in me. When I worked there, he complimented me occasionally and he would always want to talk to me. He'd tease me a lot, but it wasn't in a mean way. It was like he was flirting. And one day I came in late (cause I had school in the morning) and he said, "Well, finally you decided to show up. It's really boring around here without you." It seems like he may be interested in me as more than a friend, but I'm not sure. What do you think?
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Post by x n0ise on Feb 12, 2002 15:13:14 GMT -5
Yeah, I think it sounds as though he may be interested in you..but I don't know if he sounds for sure. How well do you guys know each other? Try just going out some night to dinner or a movie or something to try to get to know each other. Or if you guys do know each other....and you reallllly think he's it. Dang, girl...what are you waiting for? ;D
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Post by tootrickyforyou on Feb 16, 2002 14:11:17 GMT -5
For valentines day, my crush gave me a teddy bear and a kiss (chocolate), and slow-danced with me at the dance. He talks to me every day, but he's a flirt and I don't know.
*sighs* boys are SO frustrating!
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Post by x n0ise on Feb 22, 2002 23:16:09 GMT -5
SweetGoldenSlumber: It sounds like he really does like you. Maybe you should ask him about it. Flirt with him a little. ;D Good luck.
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Post by ladyluv on Mar 2, 2002 22:20:31 GMT -5
Hey kids I really like this guy. But now We don't really have an excuse to hang out together anymore, we were in the play together thats how we got to know eachother he'd always flirt with me, say encouraging things, once we spent 10-15 minutes alone on the stage together just talking, at the cast party he came right over and sat beside me for awhile and we just chatted. Lately we've been seeing more of eachother around school and even though things may not be said everytime...we maintain intense eye contact...I think things have stepped out of the friendly-say-hi mode to the sexy-intense eye contact mode. There has been a distinct change in the way we act towards eachother but its not a bad thing. He has my number he's called me b4 (to talk to his sister) he knows where I live we both have lockers close to eachother...Oh Oh another cute thing he does (other than the deer in headlights stare) is he raises is eyebrows. hheeehee I know I could ask him out but I dont want to overstep that boudary because knowing him he's very traditional and polite and proper. (one of the reasons I like him so much) I guess all I can do is provide the opportunity for him to make a move if he wants to... how can I make it obvious to him that I'm interested? I think I already have but I'm not too sure..eeeep. I don't want to be forceful. thats not my style. I want to make it clear that I am interested but I don't want to make him feel pressured. any advice? thank you again love, Lady
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Post by LisaRocksYourWorld, yo on Mar 2, 2002 23:07:25 GMT -5
LadyLuv- It sounds like he likes you. Guys can't take a hint, but maybe he'll pick up on yours eventually if you do it continuously. What are these hints? Walk up to him, smile, give him a big "HI!". Whenever you talk to him, touch his arm, things like that. Invite him out for coffee, or to hang out at your house, or even to go to the movies. These almost-dates are casual, but fun, and it gives you a chance to spend time with him alone without asking him out. Good luck!
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Post by ae_princess on Apr 16, 2002 18:29:44 GMT -5
Here's what happened with me and my crush. By the way, me and him are friends but I am really shy and can't get up enough nerve to ask him out! Yesterday we were in science class (he sits in front of me) and he started tapping the back leg of his chair and then he started kinda lightly tapping my leg. I thought that it might have been an accident so I didn't say anything about it and kept on working. Then he gave me a note that said "Do you mind if I do that?" and I thought he was talking about tapping the chair leg (which totally drives me up a wall!!) so I wrote back "No, I don't guess...but if it gets any louder I'll CHOKE you!! Just kidding!" and then he wrote back "Not that...this." and started tapping my leg again. I didn't write anything back and he kept doing it (which I didn't mind at all!!). Then we were outside after lunch and me and my friend was standing there talking and he came over there and stood with us the whole time which he NEVER does. Then when the bell rang I went back upstairs to the last class I had been in to get my backpack and he came out of the room behind me and he was supposed to be about 30 feet behind me but then I turned around and he was just RIGHT THERE and then he started walking beside me. Then as we headed into the spanish classroom I said something to him (I can't remember what it was) and he goes "Oh, be quiet and hurry up." and then he hit me on the butt with his folder (he's NEVER done that before!). Then on the way out he asked his friend if he could borrow a pencil and said that he would give it back and I said "No he won't" and he went out the door behind me and hit me on the butt AGAIN with his folder. Then today in spanish we had to choose partners for an activity that we were doing and he leaned around his friend, J.S., and called my name and goes "Will you be my partner?" and I said "yeah" and then he ran up there to tell our teacher that me and him were partners. Then after the bell rang for us to go to our last class, he walked most of the way to class with me and then he had stopped to talk to some of his friends that were in a different class but he ran and caught up with me and walked with me the rest of the way to class. Then during that class he came over there and put his hand on the back of my chair and leaned over me and asked what homeworked we had (I know that doesn't sound like much but he could have asked anybody else in the whole class). Do you think he likes me or what? Please help a.s.a.p.!! Thanks!!
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Post by x n0ise on Apr 16, 2002 18:42:55 GMT -5
ae_princess: I would say that he's flirting with you, yes. Seems to me like he's got a thing goin' for you. Flirt back with him, try to get closer to him as a friend and just start having more in-depth conversations with him. I think there's something there....so go for it, babe! Just be cautious, though, you wouldn't want to ruin any friendships!
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Post by vbkimber07 on May 4, 2002 22:15:39 GMT -5
aeprincess--I also agree. You have potential here. The things u described are pretty much what this one guy that likes me (he told me) does now....so I'd take it as a good sign.
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Post by tam on May 10, 2002 12:52:15 GMT -5
ae_princess!! Does he like you? Hell yeah! ;D He's got something for you! I already have my own opinion on the answer to my question but I'd like to hear what you think. My best friend broke up with her boyfriend, for someone else, at the rugby. She then left to go home. I stayed with my friends, Troy and Shane, to wait for my parents. He stayed with his friends. He started hitting on me, in a big way. Then he asked me if I liked him. I was only joking and I said maybe. I did like him but I didn't want to say anything because it still felt like he was my best friend's boyfriend. Later he said that he liked me. First I didn't know what to do. Then we made out! Away from our friends though. They knew what happened though. My best friend got really mad so I had to say 'no' when he asked me out. He told her that he only used me because he was mad at her. I think that is true, but I'm not exactly sure. They got back together, then she broke up with him, again, yesterday. I'm going to the rugby tomorrow. Does he like me or was he only using me? Oh I left out one minor detail... Everyone is mad at me because I made out with him! -They all called me a slut! !
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Post by MiSs_uNdErStoOd on May 27, 2002 10:12:06 GMT -5
I've liked this guy for awhile and I think he likes me too, but I can't talk to him. I'm extremely shy and when I'm around him I get nervous and say stupid things.
He does things that guys wouldn't normally do around girls. My friends say he seems to be extra nice to me and his friends act weird (sometimes they seem to go out of their way to be nice to me) around me so I'm getting the feeling he does like me. In gym we were splitting up into our teams, and he put his hand on my back sorta leading me to my team. Then he'll sit next to me or try to be close to me any chance he can. We even had the same number (he plays football and I play volleyball). Then one day in driver's ed he put his hand on mine and me being an complete idiot didn't know what to do so I stiffed up and like a second later the bell rang. Then he'll wait in front of my locker (it seems like it but his friend's locker is right next to mine so he could be waiting for his friend) and I don't know what to do because he'll be there. I get so nervous that I can't go to my locker and like hang out at my friend's locker until he leaves. *aHh I get so nervous around him* One time I went into for extra help and he's in the same class as me and he ran in and got extra help too (even though he's getting an A in that class). In English, I had to teach a lesson to the class and asked for volunteers to read part of it and the teacher goes to him, "Here's your chance" but I didn't call on him. LoL. I called on someone else. My friend told me later, he was the first one to start clapping when I finished and the last person to stop and then we were put into a group together and he goes YES! and then high fived me. Another time, he wanted to trade with another guy who was in my group but the teacher wouldn't let him and his friend goes, can we trade saying everyone in my group's name except me and for his group. And his friend would go, when he sat near me "You're so whipped" and then they all pretend to whip him. On our class trip, last week he sat behind my friend who was sitting across from me and then sat directly behind me when we were watching the play. My friend told me later he was sitting basicly off his seat and resting his head on the back of my chair. The thing is I do like him ALOT. But I don't know what to do. I'm extremely shy and I can't talk to him. We're in two different groups. He's a jock and I'm labeled "one of the smart ones" I like him but I don't know if anything would ever happen between us because of the cliques. (We live in a small town). I like him, but I can't talk to him. I don't know what to do. Help!
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Post by DrAmAqUeEn247 on Jun 29, 2002 9:14:39 GMT -5
Well my crush is always flirting with me and we flirt alot now and at 1 of the dances he wanted 2 dance with me but wanted ME 2 ask him, like he wouldn't believe anyone else and wanted me 2 say it. People r saying he likes me and that he blushes when my friend asks him if he does and people say he wanted 2 go out with me but he never admits it, I know y cuz he knows me or my good friend Alex will b all like OMG but every1 is like HE LIKES U!! So I'm pretty positive he likes me
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Post by DrAmAqUeEn247 on Jun 29, 2002 9:15:04 GMT -5
Well my crush is always flirting with me and we flirt alot now and at 1 of the dances he wanted 2 dance with me but wanted ME 2 ask him, like he wouldn't believe anyone else and wanted me 2 say it. People r saying he likes me and that he blushes when my friend asks him if he does and people say he wanted 2 go out with me but he never admits it, I know y cuz he knows me or my good friend Alex will b all like OMG but every1 is like HE LIKES U!! So I'm pretty positive he likes me 8)
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Post by DrAmAqUeEn247 on Jun 29, 2002 9:15:58 GMT -5
Well my crush is always flirting with me and we flirt alot now and at 1 of the dances he wanted 2 dance with me but wanted ME 2 ask him, like he wouldn't believe anyone else and wanted me 2 say it. And we danced like 3 times cuz people were saying he still wants 2 dance with u! People r saying he likes me and that he blushes when my friend asks him if he does and people say he wanted 2 go out with me but he never admits it, I know y cuz he knows me or my good friend Alex will b all like OMG but every1 is like HE LIKES U!! So I'm pretty positive he likes me 8)
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