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Post by Cassiopeia on Feb 16, 2002 22:50:31 GMT -5
I'm so pathetic. I'm 18 years old and I've never been asked out before. Guys just hate me, I guess. Almost all my friends have boyfriends, and I'm so alone. I might as well accept the fact that no one is ever going to want me, and I'm going to be lonely for the rest of my life.
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Post by qtpie101 on Feb 17, 2002 20:05:53 GMT -5
what is wrong w/ u?  NOTHING trust me. i lived in tx for the first 14 years of my life and i had absolutely nothing w/ ne of the guys there. i was friends w/ all of them but no one liked me & i felt pathetic. i moved to md and i've been here for a year. i got a b/f after like 3 months, i got a new years kiss, & i'm going out w/ a new guy now. just because some guys don't like u doesn't mean that there isn't a whole other bunch of guys just WAITING to drool over u. trust me don't feel bad... your time will come & when it does just remember 2 have fun! *kisses*, robin p.s. e-mail me if u want Nibor599@cs.com |
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Post by x n0ise on Feb 17, 2002 22:06:53 GMT -5
Nothing is wrong with you! Maybe it's not your *time* yet. Who knows! I'm sure there's a person out there waiting for you...but you just don't know it yet. Be outgoing...go to party's, etc. Maybe you'll meet that one special guy! =) I'm 13. That's what I did and now I have the coolest guy ever. He's everything I've ever wanted in a guy and I hope we never lose each other...he's 17, outgoing, and the greatest person ever. Just be patient. You'll find someone. ;D
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Post by Cassiopeia on Feb 17, 2002 23:36:09 GMT -5
But you guys are much younger than me. I'm out of high school now, and I've only had 3 boyfriends, and a couple meaningless flings with a couple guys. I've been in college for 2 semesters, and no one has asked me out. I haven't been in a relationship in over a year. I guess I had my chance back then, and I blew it. Guys just don't like me.
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Post by LisaRocksYourWorld, yo on Feb 17, 2002 23:53:31 GMT -5
When all the bed-hopping tramps we see today are grown up and married, will it really matter that they had a countless number of boyfriends when they were younger? You'll meet someone eventually, and you'll spend the rest of your life with them. You'll look back on life and wonder why you were ever concerned with that. We only need one person to make us happy in life eventually.
I feel guys don't like me, too, but I can't relate that well, after all, I'm only 14.
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Post by x n0ise on Feb 18, 2002 22:30:08 GMT -5
Nothing is wrong with you. My cousin is your same age and in your same situation. He'll come eventually. ;D Promise!
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Post by zonacruz6 on Feb 18, 2002 23:03:27 GMT -5
Nothing is wrong with you. There will be a guy, or guys, and you will catch their eye. Don't think no one will ever like/love you, that is so far from the truth. I know I'm only 15, but I am not liked much by guys either. I am in love with one of my best friends, and he has a girlfriend! We all have bad luck, some of us just have worse luck. Please don't stress over it. I'm sure you're very likeable.
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Post by x.just.a.little.grL.x on Feb 20, 2002 21:45:30 GMT -5
Hey, you know what...A lot of people feel the exact same way. People could have liked you, maybe you just never knew about it. I know everyone wants a b/f, but I've said this before and I'll say it again...It's funny how when you want something really bad, it never comes to you, but when you least expect it, you always get what you want. So instead of feeling sorry for yorself, live a little and just concentrate and making the best out of what you have going for ya! 
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Post by whereISmyhalo on Feb 21, 2002 6:20:09 GMT -5
Cass, I've not been in a relationship for nearly a year and I am in your age.
(methinks maybe part of this is moving to college, feeling the popularity pressure, and being used to having guys ask you out..no?)
I always think its worth waiting for a serious contender than having a few sucky relationships with men who don't really care. Being single is a great way to live life, you're free to do so much!
I would concentrate on hanging out with friends, and going out and having a good time. You never know whos around the corner, and a girl who is having a good time is more attractive than one who is moping.
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Post by Soleluna on Feb 21, 2002 6:56:59 GMT -5
Hey, my mom got her first boyfriend at age 19. She married him after having a couple of boyfriends in between.... and after a while I was born. It's 17 years they are happily together.
So it doesn't mean that you won't find a guy for you... just wait, and don't stress about it. It will come when you leats expect
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Post by x n0ise on Feb 22, 2002 23:10:39 GMT -5
Ditto to Soleluna.
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Post by Toxic-Avenger on Feb 25, 2002 11:40:29 GMT -5
Maybe you're not in the right situations. If you just stay home, no one knows you're out there. Go to places you might not think of before. Go to poetry readings, coffee houses, libraries, or art museums. Take action in your own love life, but don't be discouraged if nothing happens immediately. I've seen from other threads, you're a beautiful woman, so my guess is you might be a little intimidating to some guys. I'm basing that on some of your posts from Razz. Hey too bad for them. You must remain true to yourself and let the guy see you for who you are. Like others have said, he's out there, but maybe it's up to YOU to FIND him.
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Post by tootrickyforyou on Feb 26, 2002 15:35:43 GMT -5
I think that's perfectly fine. My sister is 19 now, and she's only had one boyfriend before. Besides, it's better to wait for the RIGHT guy, then to just find one, think "what the hell" and do a bunch of meaningless crap. You should wait for "mr. wonderful" and when you do find him, then you'll be happy . |
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Post by Cassiopeia on Feb 26, 2002 19:51:11 GMT -5
^^^ Well, I have had a few boyfriends, but they didn't ask me out or anything. With each of them, we were good friends before we started dating. The thing is that it's difficult for me to make new friends (especially guys). And I feel like I have to work so hard just to get a guy to like me. I don't understand how some people have it so easy; they have people asking them out all the time. They don't have to do any of the work. I don't know what it is about me. I'm not ugly or anything, and I'm a fairly nice person. Maybe I just send out negative vibes, somehow.
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Post by KattyKatie on Feb 26, 2002 19:57:52 GMT -5
Hey, it's not so bad! My sister was a "bed-hopping little tramp" (had to use it) and she wound up pregnant! Count your lucky stars!
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NOTHING trust me. i lived in tx for the first 14 years of my life and i had absolutely nothing w/ ne of the guys there. i was friends w/ all of them but no one liked me & i felt pathetic. i moved to md and i've been here for a year. i got a b/f after like 3 months, i got a new years kiss, & i'm going out w/ a new guy now. just because some guys don't like u doesn't mean that there isn't a whole other bunch of guys just WAITING to drool over u. trust me don't feel bad... your time will come & when it does just remember 2 have fun!
