vbkimber07
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Post by vbkimber07 on Mar 20, 2002 22:04:08 GMT -5
I'd be more outgoing, and my hair would be less frizzy. If i could still change after that i'd make my nose a little smaller. but not too much.
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Post by ColeSlaw12 on Aug 1, 2002 23:04:06 GMT -5
If i could change on thing, i'd change my perception. I'd change my perception of things so that i'd be able to realize that everything is beautiful in its own way. Then i wouldnt have to change my weight or my eyes or my hair because i'd realize that these things are beautiful. No one in the world looks like me or has my qualities. I was made this way for a reason. I have to look at things in a different light.
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Post by iNsAnE.cAnAdIaN on Aug 1, 2002 23:15:59 GMT -5
^^^ Excellent answer!!
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Post by RebDoMINe on Aug 2, 2002 20:33:45 GMT -5
Wow...it's sad to me that everyone would change something about themselves. Although I admit to having felt that way, and just about everyone has, I don't think I'd change anything about myself.
I know I'm not all that pretty. I don't have the biggest chest or the flattest stomach. I don't have the prettiest face or hair. But I've come to terms with the fact that my physical appearance really is not important.
I'd rather be known for my mind than my physical beauty. Even if people hated my mind--I don't care.
I'm an egoist. Of all the people in the world, I think I love myself the most. I'm my own friend. I learned a long time ago not to trust other people, so I'm the only person who knows my deepest thoughts. When this is the case, your option is to like yourself or dislike yourself.
I don't have a lot of friends, mostly because I don't like making them. I'm very comfortable with my lack of friends...In fact, most people think of me as mean.
So call me arrogent, if you will. Call me egotistical, selfish, or self-obsessed. I am. You would be right to say those things. But I'm not the kind of person who goes around staring in the mirror all day. I just like myself for who I am inside.
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Post by Gabster on Sept 19, 2002 16:01:01 GMT -5
^^^I agree, it's sad that so many people want to change things about themselves.
I definitely do not have the highest self esteem there is, and not a day goes by when I don't critique my reflection in the mirror. Still, if it came right down to it, I'd stay just the way I am. I couldn't imagine myself looking any differently than I do, and I'm slowly starting to realize that, with all the flaws I create, I *am* beautiful. That sounds incredibly egotistical, but it's true for everyone. There is no such thing as ugly, and every body type, every eye color, every nose size, every personality is beautiful.
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Post by Spazmatikal on Sept 19, 2002 18:46:36 GMT -5
i am so proud to say that i don't want to change anything. i've been the most self conscious person for the longest time... and i've finally learned to accept myself. before, i would have had a long list of things to post here. i still get self conscious from time to time, and have my "ugly" days, but doesn't everyone?
i'm not perfect. not in the least. i used to long for a bigger chest, flatter stomach, more curvacious figure... but those things aren't me, and with my body type, never will be. what i am is me.
there are things about my personality that need changes, but i feel that i'm growing there too... my personality flaws are getting better as i get more mature. i'm doing pretty okay, i think.
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Post by RebDoMINe on Sept 21, 2002 19:21:18 GMT -5
Gabster and Spazmatical--I agree completely, well said. If I had a choice between keeping my mind as is (rather, it still being able to develop in ways positive to me--but not regress...argh, that makes no sense, but oh well, you'll figure it out) and being the physically "ugliest" person alive, or having normal thoughts and being gorgeous, I'd choose the first. So what if I look like a cross between a fish, a monkey, and a cow?
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Post by x n0ise on Sept 21, 2002 21:23:03 GMT -5
I put 'other'.....probably on how 'wise' I am. Not SMART, but WISE. There is a difference.
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Post by funkygirlk16 on Sept 26, 2002 15:09:34 GMT -5
I chose body, just to make myself a bit thinner. And, of course, my teeth, the enamal came off two of my teeth and they rotted and I had them pulled so now, until the pernament ones come up,
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Post by canadiana on Oct 13, 2002 21:34:58 GMT -5
My legs..... I'm really not satisfied with my legs. Mostly the thigh area but still... I'm not confident wearing short skirts. Especially with my mother telling me I don't look good in them.
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Post by julinka on Oct 15, 2002 0:46:58 GMT -5
Most of the time my answer would be, proudly, nothing (other than a general desire to take better care of it by exercising more, but not in order to look better). Right now the answer is to gain back 9 pounds or so that I lost through being stupid so I can get back to my normal, stable, no ribs showing weight.
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Post by funkygirlk16 on Oct 15, 2002 10:31:24 GMT -5
eat choclate all day long. weight will come back. guarenteed.
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Post by paradoxPanda on Apr 30, 2003 17:49:34 GMT -5
I chose body, but specifically my stomach.
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Post by ThaIceLady on May 26, 2003 7:29:51 GMT -5
If you had asked me this many months ago I would have said "I'd change blah blah blah.." but now I have to say absolutely nothing! Nothing at all. Be thankful for how you look and learn to love yourself.
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Post by Spazmatikal on May 26, 2003 13:08:34 GMT -5
^^ that's awesome. it's a good feeling, isn't it? i've made my way to that point too, pretty much. i still have my off days, and i still get a little self conscious once in a while... but.. i am me, Tiffany, and i am beautiful. screw society and their preconceived notions
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